I know it's just the start of things but it literally broke my heart to see him so upset.
He plays with next doors children and always asks first if he can go over, they always say yes and he has the best time with them but today when he shouted over they said no. His little face was so heartbroken. He kept saying 'they said no mummy, they said no'
I've explained that sometimes they are busy and can't always play when he wants to (they are older boys) but I'd like to explain it in the best way possible. God rejection isn't nice but I know he's going to face it much worse as he gets older.
How would you explain jt?
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My 3 year old got rejected today
helpim · 25/07/2022 16:23
helpim · 25/07/2022 19:06
The point of my post was to try ensure he wasn't so bothered with being turned down etc in the future. So some advice on what kind of things to say, really not sure why I'm overreacting as I was just looking for tips 🤷🏻♀️
helpim · 26/07/2022 15:49
@Whatwouldscullydo Not everyone finds these things come naturally when dealing with a toddler. If that's hard for you to understand then perhaps don't comment on a help forum 🫣🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
helpim · 26/07/2022 15:49
@Whatwouldscullydo Not everyone finds these things come naturally when dealing with a toddler. If that's hard for you to understand then perhaps don't comment on a help forum 🫣🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
rattlemehearties · 25/07/2022 16:32
You're taking this far too personally. Bright and breezy, "they can't fit you in today, maybe another time, now what shall we do?" and find something else for your 3yo to do.
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helpim · 25/07/2022 19:06
The point of my post was to try ensure he wasn't so bothered with being turned down etc in the future. So some advice on what kind of things to say, really not sure why I'm overreacting as I was just looking for tips 🤷🏻♀️
helpim · 26/07/2022 15:49
@Whatwouldscullydo Not everyone finds these things come naturally when dealing with a toddler. If that's hard for you to understand then perhaps don't comment on a help forum 🫣🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
helpim · 25/07/2022 16:26
Makes me scared of what's to come. I feel his pain tenfold 😫
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