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Words MN has made you dislike

211 replies

dexterslockedintheshedagain · 07/06/2022 20:23

Just reading through a couple of threads, and realised that, due to their (over)use on MN, there are some words that now make my teeth itch.

Words like 'gentle' (I see it as quite PA) and 'yummy' (always makes me think of some Lycra clad female jogging with a pushchair for some reason).

Am I alone in this, or do others have words they've come to dislike too?

OP posts:
HenryCavillsPerfectTeeth · 08/06/2022 08:56

Forgot to add "hauntingly beautiful"

TheOceanClub · 08/06/2022 09:12

Spag Bol

It’s just awful.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 08/06/2022 09:39

A MN sentence, not a word, but ‘That doesn’t work for me’ - so often recommended. Does anyone ever actually say it to the CF who wants you to mind/pick up her kids every day for a week?

What’s wrong with, ‘Sorry, I can’t/that won’t be possible.’

rollingmeadows · 08/06/2022 09:45
  • Howling with laughter
  • spat my tea out all over the keyboard/screen
  • Dear Reader
GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 08/06/2022 09:46

Amazing - so over-used, and not just on MN. It would really be amazing if aliens had landed in our garden last night and were asking for a nice cup of the Earthling tea they’d heard about.

Blossomtoes · 08/06/2022 09:58

Nice hamper, otherwise known as a collection of random objects the recipient doesn’t want.

PeskyRooks · 08/06/2022 10:54

I hate it when people are having problems with their husbands they are told to 'sit him down and tell him...' so weird like he's a little kid!
Also a 'come to jesus' chat?? What?

I think it's OK if people do 'doctor/midwife whatever here' posts surely it makes their advice more worth reading than a random poster. But I absolutely hate 'well I just read this to DH and he thinks your DH is wrong/he would never do that' Well bully for you!!

But sorry I do say cross in real life. Being cross is a very specific feeling!

CaptSkippy · 08/06/2022 10:56

Bunfight. I am not even sure if it's a term used outside of mumsnet, but because it appears entirely sexist in nature I don't like it.

AllPlayedOut · 08/06/2022 10:58

Bunfight. I am not even sure if it's a term used outside of mumsnet, but because it appears entirely sexist in nature I don't like it.

It's definitely used outside of MN and I've never associated it with one particular sex.

CaptSkippy · 08/06/2022 11:00

AllPlayedOut · 08/06/2022 10:58

Bunfight. I am not even sure if it's a term used outside of mumsnet, but because it appears entirely sexist in nature I don't like it.

It's definitely used outside of MN and I've never associated it with one particular sex.

What does it refer to if not to a hairstyle?

Blossomtoes · 08/06/2022 11:10

CaptSkippy · 08/06/2022 11:00

What does it refer to if not to a hairstyle?

Cake throwing.

AllPlayedOut · 08/06/2022 11:21

What does it refer to if not to a hairstyle?

It's a term for a petty squabble. If anything I'd associate it with politicians. A quick Google suggests that they're often described as having bunfights.

beeeeeeeeeeeeeeee · 08/06/2022 12:09

What does it refer to if not to a hairstyle?

Food.

ExtremelyDedicated · 08/06/2022 13:01

I thought it originated as an argument over who got the buns when there aren't enough to go round.

washingwakeup · 08/06/2022 22:56

Narrative.

Thereisnolight · 08/06/2022 23:27

washingwakeup · 08/06/2022 22:56

Narrative.

No, I’ll have to stop you there.
I love the word “narrative”.
also the word “inappropriate”

Ticksallboxes · 09/06/2022 00:10

I'm sorry, but anyone starting their post with "I have anxiety..." makes me immediately scroll on. It usually has nothing to do with the OP.

ellieboolou · 09/06/2022 09:15

TambourineOfRepentance · 08/06/2022 07:55

Vulva - no one in real life, including doctors, nurses, gynaecologists and midwife's have ever referred to my vagina as a vulva.

Probably because they're referring to your vagina, which is a separate part of the body.
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🤣 I was waiting for someone to come along and be sanctimonious about it.

Enough said

SinisterBumFacedCat · 09/06/2022 09:22

Hun

Unhinged - horrible and only ever see it on here as an insult

CrunchyCarrot · 09/06/2022 09:28

Grim
Vile
Drip feeding
"You sound ..." (fill in word here)
Hand hold

Remaker · 09/06/2022 09:52

As an Australian mumsnet user the first word that sprang to mind was ‘vile’.

So overused here that it is rendered meaningless. In Australia it is used rarely and means something truly horrific, not just an opinion that you mildly disagree with.

riesenrad · 09/06/2022 10:59

I think picky tea is yuck.

I don't like "gift" being used as a verb but it's not just an MN thing. See also "impact".

I quite like "naice" - it conveys the idea of an aspirational snobby middle class area really well (like the one I live in, where everyone judges you by the car you drive).

youcantparktheresir · 09/06/2022 11:13

Ticksallboxes · 09/06/2022 00:10

I'm sorry, but anyone starting their post with "I have anxiety..." makes me immediately scroll on. It usually has nothing to do with the OP.

Plus everyone seems to have anxiety.

darisdet · 09/06/2022 11:34

"You sound ..." (fill in word here)

'Charmer' is a popular one to fill in there, but, and to be fair, it's usually deserved that I've ever seen.

Davethecat2000 · 09/06/2022 13:25

Red flags everywhere
Picky bits
Huge salads