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Friends invited people we dislike on our holiday

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EmergencyMarmaladeSandwiches · 05/06/2022 08:19

We are going on a group holiday, four couples. All good friends. We booked a villa to share in Italy for a long weekend.

When deciding who should come, Couple A suggested we invite X. Two of the already invited couples said no way, we don’t get along with X.

We really really dislike X. They are genuinely one of the most unpleasant and scheming people we have ever met. For some reason Couple A are friendly with X, but no one else is. We have been adults and just not invited X to our own dinner parties etc.

After booking flights, hotels etc it seems Couple A have invited couple X to stay in the same city as us as when we are there. There is no room in our villa, but they would obviously expect to come along to dinner or trips planned.

We are absolutely furious. We really really do not want to spend any time with X, let alone our holiday!

Now I know it’s a free world etc, and we can’t bar someone from visiting the same time that we are there. But it now means I will be stressed all holiday, as X has a dislike for me. Couple A will clearly have told X that we didn’t want them there, and so it will be awkward.

What would you do? Cancel the trip? Find our own hotel? Remove Couple A from the villa?

OP posts:
FlipFlopShopInHawaii · 09/06/2022 13:27

Holiday is saved 🙌

RampantIvy · 09/06/2022 13:34

Interesting outcome.
I expect X couple will have dug themselves into a deeper hole now.

Ijsbear · 12/06/2022 15:37

wow. X certainly managed to stir up a whole load of bad feeling on Mumsnet! :D

X could have heard of it through work colleagues if someone worked in the same place, through friends of friends, anything really.

I think what's come out of this is that A will never trust X again. Result!

Ohthatsexciting · 12/06/2022 16:41

EmergencyMarmaladeSandwiches · 09/06/2022 09:58

After all of this, it turns out that Couple A did not invite X on holiday. We asked Couple A, and they haven’t really spoken to X in months.

X had heard through the grapevine about the holiday, and in order to stir up bad feelings, told Couple B that they were invited by Couple A and would be coming. This gives further credence to our dislike of X for being a trouble maker.

Couple A made it quite clear they hadn’t invited X and they would not be coming nor welcome.

You’re going out a holiday with a couple (A) that you heard something about on the grapevine and immediately believed and got cross.

there is clearly an issue between you and couple a too.

i predict a stream of threads from each of these couples during this holiday, all complaining about the other couples

hopelesslydevotedtoGu · 26/01/2023 20:28

What happened on your holiday OP? Any update? Did X turn up?

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