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Christmas chat (for those of us on our own)

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BuddhaAtSea · 24/12/2021 09:51

I’m on my own (with the dog Grin) for the next few days. Happy to bore you, the most excitement I’m going to get this Christmas is opening my work Secret Santa present. If you don’t count starting on oestrogen gel, that’s the other thing I’ve got lined up.
Please join me 🤗

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Garysmum · 24/12/2021 19:47

I am spending the next few days alone - without my DC, without family or partner as my ex has covid and it's not worth the risk.
Lots of exercise I hope and I only have tinned and frozen food in so that's what I am having.

Yummypumpkin · 24/12/2021 19:51

@garysmum I too like the exercise idea. But please don't quote me as the thread moves on. Are your DC little?

@nordica m and s party food is the best. What the hell can we watch?

cissyandbessy · 24/12/2021 19:55

@Yummypumpkin Ok, I'm eating salmon blinis for breakkie with bucks fizz. Then a prawn and scallop gratin thingy I got in Aldi with some veg - if I can be arsed to prep and cook any! Might just skip them and carry on eating sweets and chocs for the afternoon. Don't feel guilty at all!

prettycolours · 24/12/2021 19:57

Spending my first Christmas alone this year (split up with ex a few months ago and family don't want to meet for Christmas this year due to covid worries) and tbh I'm really looking forward to it Blush

Love being able to do exactly what I want when I want. I am gonna make a fry up for breakfast tomorrow then spend the rest of the day eating equally unhealthy food probably Smile

LeQuern · 24/12/2021 19:59

@BuddhaAtSea thanks for the tip! I’ve had half a bottle of red and we’re watching Carol From Kings - it’s not so bad!

Yummypumpkin · 24/12/2021 20:00

[quote cissyandbessy]@Yummypumpkin Ok, I'm eating salmon blinis for breakkie with bucks fizz. Then a prawn and scallop gratin thingy I got in Aldi with some veg - if I can be arsed to prep and cook any! Might just skip them and carry on eating sweets and chocs for the afternoon. Don't feel guilty at all! [/quote]
I am all about the breakfast. I love this. I'm going fish and bucks fizz brekkie too.

Gettingthereslowly2020 · 24/12/2021 20:01

Hello, I'm completely alone this Christmas. Tomorrow, I shall be eating a huge pizza all to myself. I've also got mince pies and extra thick double cream. Oh, and I've treated myself to a few different boxes of chocolates.

user1471511336 · 24/12/2021 20:03

@Yummypumpkin - I have a tube of croissant dough for freshly cooked croissants for breakfast, a M&S ready meal ( Sad ) for lunch and some smoked salmon for supper. But if all I want is beans on toast I will save all that for another day!

Tomanyhandbags · 24/12/2021 20:07

Lucky enough to have been given a lovely looking Christmas Dinner with all the trimmings including proper toasties my housing association that just needs popping in the oven to warm up. Also cooked small turkey crown as love turkey sandwiches and turkey and chips on boxing day.

Tomanyhandbags · 24/12/2021 20:08

Roasties not toasties

Garysmum · 24/12/2021 20:12

@Yummypumpkin DC are early teens. Its not ideal as two of them are fine with it but one hates christmas anyway.

@Tomanyhandbags sounds good, think I am going to crack open the Heinz soup tomorrow!

Think I am going to bed soon. Bored!

Tomanyhandbags · 24/12/2021 20:14

That's exactly what my husband would have chosen hope you enjoy it as much as he used to

BuddhaAtSea · 24/12/2021 20:20

@Garysmum, do the Heinz tomato soup, but with cheesy croutons!!! Like toss them on a tray with olive oil, oregano, some chilli flakes and grated Parmesan.

Ok, what I really wanted for Christmas dinner is a bowl of nachos, with smoked cheese grated over the top, sour cream, a drizzle of sweet chilli sauce and jalapeños. I went into M&S to arm myself with the said goods but it was friggin Armageddon in there, so I exited sharpish. I got chilli con quorn, it’s SO yummy though.

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StopGo · 24/12/2021 20:21

Second Christmas without DH. DS is in healthcare so his leave has been cancelled. DD going to the outlaws.

This Christmas it's as though the reality of DH's death has hit home. Dog and I will have a day together.

I wish I'd bought smoked salmon and prawns but have wine.
Merry Christmas

soyabean · 24/12/2021 20:21

Hi everyone!
I’m on my own as I am in Covid isolation till midnight Boxing Day. Feeling much better now, just tired. My son is going to deliver me a Christmas dinner tomorrow. I’m very lucky in that respect.

Garysmum · 24/12/2021 20:26

@StopGo I have wine too. Though I also have the M&S snowglobe gin. I am so sorry about your loss. But somehow you will get through this Christmas.
Cheesy though it may sound, I am rooting for you all.

BuddhaAtSea · 24/12/2021 20:32

@AsanteSana and @Tomanyhandbags and who else asked about the dog. I have a dog to go with the middle aged divorced woman stereotype 😂, a shih tzu. terribly ungroomed, if that’s a word, sports the surfer look, comes running and swimming in the sea with me.

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Tomanyhandbags · 24/12/2021 20:34

StopGo unfortunately this is my second husband that has passed away and in my experience the second year was the hardest as your prepared for the first and people are more protective so do what you need to to get through this one and hopefully next year will be better and easier.

Tomanyhandbags · 24/12/2021 20:35

Never thought looks were important

BuddhaAtSea · 24/12/2021 20:43

Ah, sausage fingers, I just lost a big post 🤯

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Iamanicepersonreally · 24/12/2021 20:46

I'm on my own with a cat. Can I join please?
Bought a bottle of nice wine but don't fancy it. Have a great Christmas everyone

NatashaBedwouldbenice · 24/12/2021 20:48

I’m with DP, but family things have got complicated this year, so it’s just the two of us this weekend. I’m feeling it this evening and have brought myself to bed. Broken my usual rule and brought the phone to bed too.

Sending warm wishes to those of you doing Christmas your own way tomorrow.

Tomanyhandbags · 24/12/2021 20:51

Just had a hot turkey roll and a glass of Cointreau and lemonade so for me Christmas has officially started.

NatashaBedwouldbenice · 24/12/2021 20:51

Are the snow globe guns any good?

Tomanyhandbags · 24/12/2021 20:52

Was talking about your dog not my husbands with looks not being important