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My husband died 2 days ago

197 replies

ghostmouse · 10/07/2021 10:27

Mr Mouse sadly lost his short battle with cancer 2 days ago.

I am absolutely heartbroken and lost and missing him so badly.

Will this pain ever stop?

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Slingsanderrors · 10/07/2021 12:02

So sorry to read this, I too followed your previous threads and had a little weep at your wedding.

Another vote for WAY from me, they were incredibly supportive of a colleague who lost his wife very young.

Please look after yourself x

NimbleHippo · 10/07/2021 12:02

My goodness. I am so very sorry. Sending love.

Crazycat53 · 10/07/2021 12:14

I'm so sorry to hear this. I have been following your threads & thinking of you. X

PurpleMustang · 10/07/2021 12:14

So sorry for your loss and that it has all happened so quickly. But so glad you got your wedding day. Hugest hugs

Frazzled2207 · 10/07/2021 12:16

I’ve followed your recent threads
Very very sorry for your loss

halfhope · 10/07/2021 12:19

I too have followed your threads. I am so sorry for your loss ghostmouse

KatherineSiena · 10/07/2021 12:20

So very sorry to hear this. I’ve read all your posts and have been thinking about you both. Godspeed to Mr Mouse and deepest condolences to you. 💐

FindingMeno · 10/07/2021 12:21

You will love him always. And he will always be part of your life because of that.
You will learn how to navigate life although it's such an overwhelming loss at the moment.
I am very sorry that he wasn't able to stay longer.

BIWI · 10/07/2021 12:22

I'm so sorry Flowers

Lindy2 · 10/07/2021 12:22

I'm so sorry for your loss.

BalladOfBarryAndFreda · 10/07/2021 12:23

Much love to you, mouse ❤️

olidora63 · 10/07/2021 12:25

Oh Mrs Mouse I am so desperately sorry.All happened so quickly. Am truly heartbroken for you and your family. Sending you lots of thoughts and hugs . 💐💕

FuckUcuntychops · 10/07/2021 12:27

I’m so sorry was thinking of you this morning and your wedding. So so sorry to hear this. Sending love and hugs Flowers

CatkinToadflax · 10/07/2021 12:31

So very sorry to hear this. I’ve been following your threads. Sending much love and strength x Flowers 🐭🐭

dapsnotplimsolls · 10/07/2021 12:32

So sorry to read this, thinking of you and your family.

noideawhatusernametochoose · 10/07/2021 12:36

I remember your previous threads, and I am so, so sorry. xx

EmbarrassingAdmissions · 10/07/2021 12:45

I'm so sorry for you and your children.

Giraffey1 · 10/07/2021 12:47

I’m so sorry. Do you have family and friends around you to help support you ?

Pansypotter123 · 10/07/2021 12:49

@ghostmouse I was 44 when I held my husband's hand as he died of cancer. At that point I felt my life was over, and your emotions expressed here echo what I went through at that time. Take baby steps, take things a minute at a time, and allow yourself both time and space to grieve. Remember, this is your journey, travel at a pace to suit you. You will get there, and you will not always feel like this, I promise you. Sending you more love 💕 xxxxx

TheOnlyKoiInAPondOfGoldfish · 10/07/2021 12:50

so sorry to hear this Mouse - I was hoping you would have a lot more time together. So pleased you were with him though, and that the last voices he heard were those of people who loved him so much ❤️

endofthelinefinally · 10/07/2021 12:51

I am so sorry for your loss.
Flowers

Welshflowerpower · 10/07/2021 12:51

Oh Mouse Sad

I’m so bloody sad to read this. Thinking of you Flowers

ineedaholidaynow · 10/07/2021 12:51

I am so sorry Flowers

Oblomov21 · 10/07/2021 12:52

I'm very sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself. Thanks

Igmum · 10/07/2021 12:53

So sorry for your loss ghostmouse. Sending love ❤️ Thanks