I think my Husband is dying

[DollyParsnip]

Hi

DH had a planned surgery on Thursday which went wrong; he had a catastrophic bleed which lead to his chest being opened and a long time to stabilise. He's on full life support but they are very, very concerned that he has few signs of brain activity.

He's in a good hospital with an amazing team around him, we didn't expect him to last over Thursday night and they've kept him going but I am slowly realising that I think he's gone.

Fuck. What do I do without him? We have an 11 yo DD who is awesome and friends but I feel so alone. So much panic.

Sorry for unloading, just feels incredibly surreal.

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I’m so sorry

Very sorry for your loss 💐

So sorry

The child bereavement network has information that might be useful over the next few days and there's charities across the U.K. that can offer you and your dd in person support if/when you are wanting it. I work in this field - thinking of you at this difficult time

Oh i am so so sorry. I have been thinking about you the last few days and hoping.
I wish you peace and strength over the coming months.

I am so sorry . Life is so cruel at times. Take care of yourself and your lovely daughter .

I am so terribly sorry to read this OP. My heart goes out to you and your little girl. ❤️

I am so so sorry, OP. Life can be incredibly cruel. I hope you've got a good network of people around you.

Sending you love and condolences. xxx

Just so very very sorry to hear this Wishing you much love and strength.

Sending you love and strength, so terribly sorry for your loss, Dolly x

I will keep you and your DD in my thoughts & prayers how heartbreaking, sending love & condolences to you and your family

I'm so sorry. I will remember you in my prayers

So, so sorry to read this, Dolly - love and strength to you and your DD

I'm so sorry for the pain you are all going through. You, your daughter and your in laws.

It may be too early right now but could I suggest maybe creating a memory box for you and your daughter.

It can be a comfort once the rawness of everything starts to subside. And also something you and your daughter can use to grieve together, so that you can share all your stories, memories.
Maybe a bottle of his aftershave. It's all the supposedly little things that I found I missed.
Sending you all my prayers.

I'm so very sorry for you and your DD's loss

As someone who lost their dad at a similar age, there is still sunshine amongst the storm clouds. Wishing you strength through the storm as you adjust xxx

I'm so very sorry for your loss. 💐

I'm so very sorry to read your posts & updates.
I hope your DD is doing as ok as can be expected & of course you too. Sending condolences & sympathy to you both & wider family 💐💐

So sorry Dolly. We're here if you need to talk.

I am so very sorry for your loss. All my good wishes to you, your DD and family.

I'm so sorry for your loss DollyParsnip. Sending strength and prayers to you and your dd.

So sorry.

I am so sorry Dolly. I can't imagine how you are feeling. Love to you and DD

I'm so sorry, Dolly. Thinking of you and your DD.

Oh Dolly I'm so sorry. Sending you and your DD so much love. Take care xx

I'm so sorry for your loss op x