Hi
DH had a planned surgery on Thursday which went wrong; he had a catastrophic bleed which lead to his chest being opened and a long time to stabilise. He's on full life support but they are very, very concerned that he has few signs of brain activity.
He's in a good hospital with an amazing team around him, we didn't expect him to last over Thursday night and they've kept him going but I am slowly realising that I think he's gone.
Fuck. What do I do without him? We have an 11 yo DD who is awesome and friends but I feel so alone. So much panic.
Sorry for unloading, just feels incredibly surreal.
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