I think my Husband is dying

[DollyParsnip]

Hi

DH had a planned surgery on Thursday which went wrong; he had a catastrophic bleed which lead to his chest being opened and a long time to stabilise. He's on full life support but they are very, very concerned that he has few signs of brain activity.

He's in a good hospital with an amazing team around him, we didn't expect him to last over Thursday night and they've kept him going but I am slowly realising that I think he's gone.

Fuck. What do I do without him? We have an 11 yo DD who is awesome and friends but I feel so alone. So much panic.

Sorry for unloading, just feels incredibly surreal.

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I'm so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and sending you and your daughter strength and love 💐

Very sorry to hear of your sad loss today. Thinking of you and DD.

Sorry to read of your DHs death and may he rest in peace.

OP I'm so sorry for your loss

Love and peace to you and your wonderful DD. The ones we love never truly leave us.

I’m so sorry @DollyParsnip

Sending much love to you and your dd

Hopefully these messages will comfort you in a tiny way, just to know how many virtual strangers feel so very much for you. My husband asked me why I had tears in my eyes as I was reading. I am so so sorry to read such sad news and send very best wishes and condolences to you and your family.

I'm so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you x

I'm so so sorry for your loss. Sending you and your dd so much love xxx

Oh I'm so sorry

Thank you all for your kindness and support, have weirdly had a relaxing morning - no worry about the hospital or childcare so feel like I'm easing into the day.

DD is due back from what sounds like an epic sleepover about 12 so I will tell her then. Am dreading it really, I know it will break her heart. Just want to keep her happy forever.

My condolences OP. Stay strong, I can't begin to imagine your pain. Look after yourself and your DD xxx

So sorry to see this news today, sending much love to you and your dd

I’m so sorry to hear this sad update.

So sorry for your loss, may his soul rest in peace. May you find the strength and courage to bear the loss.

Oh @DollyParsnip I’m so sorry. I don’t have anything useful to say other than that I’m so sorry. Thinking of you and your daughter.

So very sorry for your loss 💔

Oh you poor thing, and your poor DD. Thinking of you both.

I'm so very sorry for your loss, thinking of you and your daughter

I'm so sorry for your loss

So sorry for you and your dd's loss

I'm so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your daughter.

I'm so sorry for you and your daughter. Having to give her that news will be awful. We'll all be thinking of you

Although this is the first time I have posted in your thread I have been reading it and thinking about you all since Tuesday.

So sorry to read tour news. Sending love and prayers to you all xx

Thinking of you and your dd, DollyParsnip and so very sorry for your loss. You have navigated this awful time with such grace and dignity. So many supportive thoughts and good wishes are with you both.