I think my Husband is dying

[DollyParsnip]

Hi

DH had a planned surgery on Thursday which went wrong; he had a catastrophic bleed which lead to his chest being opened and a long time to stabilise. He's on full life support but they are very, very concerned that he has few signs of brain activity.

He's in a good hospital with an amazing team around him, we didn't expect him to last over Thursday night and they've kept him going but I am slowly realising that I think he's gone.

Fuck. What do I do without him? We have an 11 yo DD who is awesome and friends but I feel so alone. So much panic.

Sorry for unloading, just feels incredibly surreal.

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I’m so very sorry

Oh DollyParsnip, I am so sorry to read that your husband has died.
My deepest sympathies.

So sorry to hear this, thoughts are with you and your family x

Oh Dolly - I am so sorry for you and DD ❤️

I'm so sorry for you and your daughter

I'm so very sorry Dolly, thinking of you and your lovely dd

So sorry for your loss

So very sorry to read your update Dolly. My thoughts are with you and your lovely daughter. Much love. xxx

So sorry to read your update.

I know the horror of losing a loved one well before their time but I can't imagine the circumstances you and your family have experienced. Take care of yourself.

I’m so sorry. xx

I'm so sorry to hear OP.
Thoughts are with you & your daughter.
You sound like you have a lot of support around you. You'll be in my prayers x

I am so very, very sorry for your loss.

Aw! So sad and so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you, daughter and family..

So very sorry to read your update

So sorry for your loss.

So saddened to read your update this morning. It's heartbreaking for you and dd and all the family. Wishing you all strength and comfort at this very difficult time xx

I am so sorry. You and your DD are in my thoughts. Xx

Dolly, I'm so sorry

I’m so sorry @DollyParsnip, thinking of you and your DD

I'm so so sorry to hear this. Sending you and your daughter so much love xxxx

So sorry for your loss.

Wishing you strength in the days ahead for you and your daughter. My husband died suddenly and friends were wonderful - take all the help and support offered. I am so very very sorry for the loss of your wonderful husband. Xx

Condolences to you 💐

So sorry to hear this awful news. When the time is right for you, the charity WAY - widowedandyoung.org.uk may help.

I'm so sorry