I think my Husband is dying

[DollyParsnip]

Hi

DH had a planned surgery on Thursday which went wrong; he had a catastrophic bleed which lead to his chest being opened and a long time to stabilise. He's on full life support but they are very, very concerned that he has few signs of brain activity.

He's in a good hospital with an amazing team around him, we didn't expect him to last over Thursday night and they've kept him going but I am slowly realising that I think he's gone.

Fuck. What do I do without him? We have an 11 yo DD who is awesome and friends but I feel so alone. So much panic.

Sorry for unloading, just feels incredibly surreal.

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Op I'm so sorry..no words I say can help. Be kind to yourself, allow yourself to grieve and allow your daughter to share your grief.. life can be so unbelievably cruel.

Oh love, thinking of you all

I'm so, so sorry

Thinking of you all, so sorry

So very sorry. Sending much love to you and your family.

I'm so so sorry. Life is devastating sometimes. I really hope you and DD are ok as can be xx

So sorry for your loss. Please do reach out if you need support xx

I'm so sorry for your loss

So sorry for your loss, glad you were able to be with him as he died, may he rest in peace and may you take some comfort that you were together. With much love to you.

I'm so very very sorry to hear your news. I've been thinking of you all. x

I’m so very sorry,thinking of you all ❤️

OP, you sound so incredibly brave, and thoughts are with you and DD at this hugely difficult time. Surround yourself with friends and family to help emotionally and physically as you navigate through the next few months. You seem like such a fantastically lovely person, and no doubt have alot of real-life support around you, but please, vent, offload, rant to all of us here if you need some virtual support in the small hours, or just want to write down how you feel in the moment. So so sorry for your loss. Xx

Sending lots of love your way, Dolly.

I'm so sorry to hear your sad news

I am so sorry to hear of you loss.

Oh, that’s so sad. Thinking of you and your DD and the rest of your DH’s family.

Sorry for your loss

I am so so sorry for your loss. Sending you and your DD much love in the days ahead, my heart is breaking for you both

Dolly, I'm so very sorry for your loss. . Love to you and your family, sending you strength and peace.

My Thoughts are with you and your daughter at this time. So sorry for your loss 💐💐

Love to you and your daughter, such a horrendous time for all of you.
Keeping you in my thoughts 💐

I'm sorry to hear your news Dolly, may he rest in peace.

I’m so very sorry for your loss Dolly 💔 Thinking of you all at what must be an unbearable time - sending lots of love your way xxx

So very very sad. His passing sounded peaceful, I hope you can take comfort from that 💐

I'm so very sorry