I think my Husband is dying

[DollyParsnip]

Hi

DH had a planned surgery on Thursday which went wrong; he had a catastrophic bleed which lead to his chest being opened and a long time to stabilise. He's on full life support but they are very, very concerned that he has few signs of brain activity.

He's in a good hospital with an amazing team around him, we didn't expect him to last over Thursday night and they've kept him going but I am slowly realising that I think he's gone.

Fuck. What do I do without him? We have an 11 yo DD who is awesome and friends but I feel so alone. So much panic.

Sorry for unloading, just feels incredibly surreal.

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I’m so very sorry for your loss - I’m glad you were with him at the end, life is so cruel. Lots of love to you, dd, dh’s parents and wider family

I am so dreadfully sorry to hear this OP. Sending much love to you and your dd.

I am so sorry @DollyParsnip

Sending love to you and your family xx

Oh no, had been quietly following and willing your DH on. So sorry you didn't get the outcome you were hoping for. 😢 You must be stunned.

Thinking of you and your wider family & friends. ❤️

Oh Dolly I am so sorry. There just doesn’t seem the right words to express my condolences .
Sending much love to you and your DD.🌺

I’m so deeply sorry for your loss. Sending you and the family lots of light x

I am so so sorry for your loss.

I am so sorry ro read the sad news OP (flowers)
It will seem like a dream, be kind to yourself, sending love to you and DD.

I'm so sorry to read your update op! But I'm so glad you were able to be with him at the end, take comfort from that! Love and strength to you and dd! I hope you have support round you! Thinking of you all!

So sorry

So very sorry to hear your update. May you find peace x

I'm so sorry for your loss, being with him at the end and that extra week will bring you endless comfort moving forward. You sound like a strong lady and a lovely family, I wish you nothing but strength and love moving forward. May your DH rest in peace.

So sorry for your loss 💐

So sorry to hear your very sad news, @DollyParsnip. Sending love and support from all of us here at MNHQ.

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Take care, Dolly.

So sorry for loss, to you and your DD. Look after each other

So very sorry to see your update x

I'm so, so sorry for your loss Dolly. I hadn't shared my story as it didn't have the positive end I was hoping yours would have. We lost my dad in much the same way. Mistakes were made and unfortunately the damage to his brain was too severe to survive. We were all by his side sharing our fondest memories with him as he slipped away. I like to think he could hear us but I suppose not. At least it was peaceful.

You and your DD will be in my thoughts this weekend and no doubt beyond.

So sorry for your loss OP. Xx

So sorry to hear he didn't make it

So sorry for your loss xx

Sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers to you and dd.

OP I am so sorry for your loss :(

Praying for you and DD. May your husband rest in peace x