I think my Husband is dying

[DollyParsnip]

Hi

DH had a planned surgery on Thursday which went wrong; he had a catastrophic bleed which lead to his chest being opened and a long time to stabilise. He's on full life support but they are very, very concerned that he has few signs of brain activity.

He's in a good hospital with an amazing team around him, we didn't expect him to last over Thursday night and they've kept him going but I am slowly realising that I think he's gone.

Fuck. What do I do without him? We have an 11 yo DD who is awesome and friends but I feel so alone. So much panic.

Sorry for unloading, just feels incredibly surreal.

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So sorry, thinking of you and your family

I'm so sorry. Not enough words, but do take care of yourself and your dd.

So, so sorry, Dolly. I was willing for a better outcome for you all.

I lost my partner suddenly, late last year, and I know all too well that aching loss and pain.

Take all the support and help you can get. There's a bereavement thread on here, I had tremendous kindness and wise advice from people on there, it helped me no end.

I am so sorry for your loss, Dolly. I am thinking of you

so very sorry for your loss xx

No words OP, I’m so sorry.

If it’s any assurance I lost my dad at a similar age to your daughter. She will be alright. So will you be.

Take time for yourself and allow yourself as much time as you need to grieve. I imagine this is very much a shock, please take care of yourself x

So incredibly sorry for your loss

So sorry x

Sending you so much love, have been following this thread

So sorry OP. I was widowed with two young children in 2014. I promise you this is survivable and one day life will be happy again xx

You're welcome to PM me.

I am so sorry for his loss, but really glad he had such a peaceful ending with you there

Sending lots of love to you

I am so, so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your DD xx

So very sorry to hear your sad news, and thinking of you and your daughter.

So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and yours x

I am so sorry. Look after yourself - I am so sad this has happened to you.

So very sorry to hear about your DH 💔 thinking of you and your DD 💐

So, so sad. Sending you love and strength, peace and hope.

I'm so sorry Dolly. Life can be very cruel. I'm glad you were able to be with him at he end and say goodbye.

Oh, so sorry OP, you and DD are in my thoughts.

So very sorry for your loss

I'm so very sorry for your loss

I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your daughter.

Lots of strength for the days and weeks ahead.

I'm so sorry Dolly. Sending you and your little girl lots of strength.