I think my Husband is dying

[DollyParsnip]

Hi

DH had a planned surgery on Thursday which went wrong; he had a catastrophic bleed which lead to his chest being opened and a long time to stabilise. He's on full life support but they are very, very concerned that he has few signs of brain activity.

He's in a good hospital with an amazing team around him, we didn't expect him to last over Thursday night and they've kept him going but I am slowly realising that I think he's gone.

Fuck. What do I do without him? We have an 11 yo DD who is awesome and friends but I feel so alone. So much panic.

Sorry for unloading, just feels incredibly surreal.

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So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your girl today xx

I am so sorry to read your sad news. Blessings to you and yours.

I’m so so sorry about your loss, I have no words and have been checking back to see how things are with him. Sending you and your family so much strength. My thoughts will be with you today x

I'm so very sorry for your loss.

oh @DollyParsnip so sorry to hear your heartbreaking news.
sending your DD & and you much love & strength.

if it helps to talk about him please do.

So sorry to hear this, sending to you all.

Oh op, I am so sorry for you loss. All my love and strength to your family

I am so sorry for your loss.

I am so very sorry. So much love to you and your daughter x

I’m so sorry for your loss OP. Sending love to you all.

So sorry for your loss. Sending love , courage and strength to you and your DD.

I am so sorry to read your update but glad you were able to be with him at the end and that it was so peaceful. My thoughts are with you and your daughter 💐

I am so sorry for your loss

So sorry for your loss. Sending love to you and your daughter.

I'm so sorry for you both. Thinking of you

So sorry for your loss, you sound so strong and so does your dd, I hope you get some answers from the inquest as to what went wrong during surgery. Thinking about you and your dd over the coming days/months xx

I’ve been following your thread. Devastated for you and your DD. Life is just so bloody unfair and cruel at times, I’m so, so sorry OP

You’re in my thoughts and I hope you have plenty of RL support.

I'm sorry to hear your sad news. I'm glad you were with him, holding his hand and playing favourite music right to the end. Sending you love and strength for the days ahead.

I am so sorry for your loss Dolly. I was hoping you’d get a miracle.

So sorry for your loss. Wishing you and your daughter all the very very best for the future

I'm so very sorry for your loss dolly xx

I am so sorry for your loss. Heartbreaking ❤️

Very sorry to hear your news, you and your daughter will be in our families thoughts and prayers 💐

So very sad to read you update. Thinking of your family x