I think my Husband is dying

[DollyParsnip]

Hi

DH had a planned surgery on Thursday which went wrong; he had a catastrophic bleed which lead to his chest being opened and a long time to stabilise. He's on full life support but they are very, very concerned that he has few signs of brain activity.

He's in a good hospital with an amazing team around him, we didn't expect him to last over Thursday night and they've kept him going but I am slowly realising that I think he's gone.

Fuck. What do I do without him? We have an 11 yo DD who is awesome and friends but I feel so alone. So much panic.

Sorry for unloading, just feels incredibly surreal.

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I'm so sorry. Be kind to yourself

I'm so very sorry for your loss .

Take care of yourself and your precious DD.

Oh no. I am so sorry, you poor thing. Do you have anyone with you for support? Wishing you so much strength.

So, so sorry. I've followed your posts and hoped your DH might rally. Sending you much love. x

That's terrible news. I am so very very sorry. I wish nothing but the best for you and your daughter in the future. You will get through this together XxxxX

I'm so very sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself, and take things at your own pace. Sending hugs to you and DD xx

I am so sorry for your loss. x

I'm so very sorry for your loss, I have been thinking of you every day and will keep you in my thoughts - you've been so brave and I can feel the deep love you have for DH through your posts. I think he would be very proud of you x x

So so sorry for your loss. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

I am so very sorry for your loss. Wishing you and your daughter all love, thoughts and prayers.

Oh no Dolly, this is just awful. I've been checking regularly and praying for a miracle. I'm so unbelievably sorry for you and your darling girl. Sending you both all the love x

I'm so sorry for your loss, @DollyParsnip. May he rest in peace. The smallest of silver linings is that at least you had this week to become slightly accustomed to the idea, small comfort though that is.

So so sorry for your loss. I'm thinking of you all today

So sorry lovely xxx

Sorry for your loss 💐💐💐

So so sorry for your loss. Do hope you have a strong network around you and your daughter.

“The life of the dead is placed on the memories of the living. The love you gave in life keeps people alive beyond their time. Anyone who was given love will always live on in another's heart.”

― Marcus Tullius Cicero

So sorry Dolly

I'm so sorry. Lots of love to you and DD

I'm so very sorry. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

So sorry
Sending love on the wind to you and your family.

So sorry. Sending love to you and your daughter

Sending you, your daughter and DH parents lots of love. I’m so so sorry to hear this xx

Oh Dolly I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending you and DD so much love and best wishes.

I am so sorry Dolly - thinking of you

I’m so, so sorry. Sending love to you all