I think my Husband is dying

[DollyParsnip]

Hi

DH had a planned surgery on Thursday which went wrong; he had a catastrophic bleed which lead to his chest being opened and a long time to stabilise. He's on full life support but they are very, very concerned that he has few signs of brain activity.

He's in a good hospital with an amazing team around him, we didn't expect him to last over Thursday night and they've kept him going but I am slowly realising that I think he's gone.

Fuck. What do I do without him? We have an 11 yo DD who is awesome and friends but I feel so alone. So much panic.

Sorry for unloading, just feels incredibly surreal.

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thinking of yiu, hoping for good news x

Op I hope that you receive good news.

I'm so sorry you are going through this op! Hoping for good news! You are both in my thoughts.

Thinking of you all and praying for your DH.

Sending lots of love and hope you get much better news 💐

Just offering another hand to hold. I'm thinking of you and your husband and hoping for the best.

🌺🌺🌺

Thinking about you @DollyParsnip

Thinking of you, hoping and praying for you all. @DollyParsnip

I couldn't read and run. What an awful situation to be in. I'm glad you have a great support network as it makes all the difference! Wishing you the absolute best luck and I really hope your DH pulls through

I'm so sorry to hear that. I really am hoping for some positive news for you and sending you a virtual handhold

I don't think I can even imagine what you are going through. I really, really hope you get some good news. Thoughts will be with you many times over the coming days.

Oh my goodness what a terrible situation I am so sorry to hear this. If the worst happens and he doesn't recover then this period when you have a chance to be with him will be so important (had a similar situation last month with a family member). Thinking of you x

You're in my thoughts, Op. Stay strong.

Sending love to you all and 24 hours can make all the difference 💐💐🤞🤞

Rooting for you all OP

This is so very sad, I hope you get some good news, thinking of you

Sending love and hugs @DollyParsnip to you, DD and wider family and friends.

It sounds as though this was an out of the blue situation? A huge shock, I am so sorry. I hope that things are gradually improving, and that you are getting more information today.

Thank you again for your amazing messages of support and hope, they are just making such a lonely situation feel less alone.

Having a big wobble this morning, got a bit teary on the phone and scared my poor DD as she thought it was bad news - she's off for a day with my in laws so I hope she manages to have a bit of fun.

Sending to every one of you and my heart goes out to all who have found yourselves in this or a similar situation xx

So so sorry you are going through this terrifying time. Sending love and strength and hoping for better news for you soon X

Dolly

I'm gonna light a candle when I get home. a candle of hope.
sending you big bear hugs and wishing for good news today x

Hoping for brighter days for you and wishing for a miracle 🌻

Dolly I'm thinking of you and your family. Wishing your husband the strength to get through this so you can all be together again. He sounds like a real fighter, don't give up, he will come back to you. Sending lots of love and big hugs xx

Thinking of you and your family. Sending you positive thoughts

Thinking of you Dolly, my heart goes out to you at this horrid time, sending love your way