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where did you meet your partner

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hellosally · 18/05/2021 19:49

I'm hoping to get "out there" if lockdown ends to hope to meet a new man . I'm not keen to try OLD and have been reading self help books about meeting men anywhere if you are open to it. in the past I only ever met men in bars or via friends and parties and have never been approached in the street etc. just wondered how many people have met someone in an unxepected way, when they werent looking?

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bloodywhitecat · 18/05/2021 19:51

Doesn't help you but we met on Tinder.

hellosally · 18/05/2021 19:52

well maybe I should try it then and broaden the net...

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bettertimesarecomingnow · 18/05/2021 19:53

Match.com

Engaged 9 days later...!

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LetticeAndromeda · 18/05/2021 19:53

Uni
But a lot of friends got stuck into hobbies and met there

ElaborateSalad · 18/05/2021 19:53

In the pub!

hellosally · 18/05/2021 19:54

wow thats amazing! so many people complain about OLD so I didnt want to try

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JMAngel1 · 18/05/2021 19:54

Mutual friends - he gatecrashed my birthday party Grin
And here we are 16 years later.

WhySoSensitive · 18/05/2021 19:55

Childhood sweethearts so not helpful.

But friends have sworn by hobbies and evening classes, you already know you’ll have something in common that way!

Stichintime · 18/05/2021 19:57

Friend of a friend, met in pub 34 years ago. I think most likely places are; through work or education, through a hobby, friends of friends.

MetalRat · 18/05/2021 19:59

At a conference overseas, turns out we were on the same plane coming in Wink

MajorNeville · 18/05/2021 20:00

Work.

MrsBungle · 18/05/2021 20:00

At work.

Igotjelly · 18/05/2021 20:01

OLD, been together 6 years and married 3. Best thing I ever did.

FizzyPink · 18/05/2021 20:01

Hinge
I liked it better than the other dating apps because you have to write a bit of a profile via the questions so found the men were a bit more invested in it rather than just sticking a couple of photos on Tinder. I know of three other friends who also met their partners on Hinge

Workinghardeveryday · 18/05/2021 20:02

I was standing on a bus, he was sitting. Bus did an emergency stop and I fell totally elegantly onto his knee!!! Was like something out of a film 😁

hellosally · 18/05/2021 20:02

looks like the traditional ones, work, friends,hobbies etc, and some online ones are more likely
all this meeting in supermarkets or traffic jams etc always seems a bit far fetched !

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firstimemamma · 18/05/2021 20:04

Match. I'm incredibly lucky as he was my second date so I didn't have to stick at it. We are due to marry in 2 weeks and have a lovely child and home. Best thing I ever did.

Bingowingslikeashieldofsteel · 18/05/2021 20:05

Tinder here too - sorry OP Grin

AliceMcK · 18/05/2021 20:06

Evening classes at uni. It didn’t happen straight away I’d just come out of a marriage and he was in a ltr. We were friends in the same study/social groups. It was over 6 years later we bumped into each other when we’re were both in the right place.

TheMotherlode · 18/05/2021 20:09

At work. It was as a very ‘work hard, play hard’ type culture so there were lots of parties and opportunities to get to know people socially. We just became friends that way and eventually more than that.

DramaAlpaca · 18/05/2021 20:12

Through mutual friends, over 30 years ago.

PennyDreadful66 · 18/05/2021 20:13

Meet me.com

Then weatherspoons

5 years later and we're still together

Wincarnis · 18/05/2021 20:16

At a fancy dress halloween party in a nightclub

RandomUsernameHere · 18/05/2021 20:18

@Workinghardeveryday

I was standing on a bus, he was sitting. Bus did an emergency stop and I fell totally elegantly onto his knee!!! Was like something out of a film 😁
Love this story!!

In answer to the OP, met DH at work

toto23 · 18/05/2021 20:18

At work on my first day.

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