*Explicit sexy stuff*. Don't open and whinge that it's about sex because you have been warned

[ChristmasSexyTime]

I posted in the sex topic before (under a different name) and had some pervy guys write to me so I'd rather just post in chat, I want some practical advice from actual females!

So here's my issue... Sometimes, during sex, if I'm not getting anywhere, my DH will place my hand on my ladybits so I can DIY it. I'm always on my back when this happens.

This is all well and good but I actually don't get off that way. I always masturbate on my front ('humping' my pillow for want of a better word). Thing is, we've been together for a while now and I haven't demonstrated because I'm worried that it looks really frickin weird. (I'd have to have my back to him so that would be really antisocial) .

Anyhoo, three questions:

1. straw poll - does anybody else do it this way? Or am I the weirdest woman in the world?

2. How, after all this time do I casually bring up that the way he thinks I do is not the way I actually do it?

3. If you use this method, do you do it in front of your partner? I don't know but to me, it seems odd.

This isn't the sort of thing I can bring up in real life with anybody and the Internet is not helping. So any advice would be super appreciated!

@Chanandlerbong01

So worth it! I've got a Starlet which is the cheapest model at £69, although I'm pretty sure I managed to get mine in a sale at some point.

The first time I used it I found it a bit too intense but after a few trial runs...OMG !

My suggestion was deleted - maybe because I put a link on it?

Others have named things which might be good, so, I'll try again. Ruby glow - it's not an internal vibrator and, well, you are welcome.

Thanks @Vivariumvivariumvivaria! God knows why that was deleted, but I appreciate you persevering! I'll look it up now.

This one is more of a cheaper option but to explore different sensation's and feelings, is certain types of fruit and vegetables, this information was provided to me from the show secret diary of a call girl with Billy Piper.