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FlatScreenTV01 · 27/11/2020 17:02

I'm sorry I can't visit you. You are 100 years old now. I think about you everyday.

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CuriousaboutSamphire · 04/12/2020 16:49

Ooh! First time I've let myself do this!

35 years on and he still loves me, as I love him.

Where are you? Alone... that's where. And yes, I do feel smug about it!

Happy Christmas 🎄

UseOfWeapons · 04/12/2020 17:09

M- after what you did to me, I hope that you are similarly destroyed.

G. I miss you. I’m so glad we spent so many happy days together before you fell asleep. In my heart always.

Work- I do all the extras because if I don’t, patients suffer. I’m doing twice the work for the same pay. Have some respect for your colleagues, the service, and our patients.

R- you are an utter delight, an amazing friend, and I can’t wait to see and hug you again.

Santaisironingwrappingpaper · 04/12/2020 17:21

Don't worry I won't be telling our dc what a sad pathetic spineless man you are. You were never their df anyway.
They are who they are because of me and my dh.

NoYouBloodyArent · 04/12/2020 18:59

Every day I come in to work and you pretend to like me. Either that or you are as cold as ice to me. I know that you don't like me, and I wish you wouldn't pretend that you did. It's cruel, and it breaks my heart sometimes. Whatever my many faults, I don't do that to you. Please stop.

WaveWalker · 04/12/2020 19:02

Thank you. I missed you so much and I happy cried when I got a reply from you. I can't believe we nearly wifed over a decade ago. You have a very lucky husband, you are one of the most beautiful shining women I have ever known. I'm so glad I reached out to you x

averageguy44 · 04/12/2020 19:23

Dear Heathen Barbarian,
For the first five years of your relationship with my ex, she was texting me from her second phone behind your back, almost every night she went to the pub without you she would ask me to meet her, often using her friends phone (because you guys had an open phone policy), she even pushed me against a wall and kissed me one night.

Ave Sathanas

averageguy44 · 04/12/2020 20:09

Dear Heathen Barbarian,
Haha you told her not to talk to strange men...meaning me....i was with her the very next evening....she would always ignore me if you were there........but when you weren't she'd hold my hand.......i loved that girl then she wanted your younger brother....can't believe you married your little brothers ex girlfriend.
Ave Sathanas

Iamaweirdone · 04/12/2020 20:16

B - There aren’t enough words in the world to express how much I hate you. What you did and what you continue to do disgust me.
M - You’re as bad as B. But you had a reason not to be. I hear you’re ill now and though I should feel something about that I don’t.
H - Come back. Please.
P - I love you and miss you every single day. I hope you knew I was there. I’m sorry I couldn’t or didn’t do more. Watch out for me please. See you when I get there xx

torquewench · 04/12/2020 20:18

Yeah, when you said you'd had "enough of my nonsense" (aka not cancelling my plans to appease you) I automatically assumed you were already seeing someone else you'd met online (again). Hope Julia C appreciates you never brushing your teeth or hair and likes going to your untidy, mouldy, smelly, damp house and your tiny limp penis

1940s · 04/12/2020 20:18

You broke my heart and yet after all of these years I wait on a message from you. I'd walk away from everything I have if you knocked my door which makes me hate myself. I can't go a month without dreaming of our reunion.

JoshLymanIsHotterThanSam · 04/12/2020 20:20

Please don’t drink gin on Saturday night. Anything but gin.

HaggisBurger · 04/12/2020 20:21

I wish you’d let me go. I wish you knew it isn’t enough for me and I know you’re trying. But I want to take a risk and see if there is something more out there. Or being on my own - happy I’m not beholden to someone who is just a friend and not even a friend whose company I’d seek out really. Are we just prolonging the inevitable.

LolaLollypop · 04/12/2020 20:27

Are you out there somewhere, thinking of me like I think of you? I wonder what we would have been like today, where your life would have taken you and what you’d be doing. You’re still there with me all the time, in my thoughts and in my actions. I miss you.

ihavenoidea20 · 04/12/2020 20:35

I'm so sorry you felt like the only option left was to take yourself out of this world. You left without a word on the 12th of october, the pain is as raw now as the day I got the call. Miss you every minute of everyday.

averageguy44 · 04/12/2020 20:36

AE- why did you let your sister keep teasing me prolonging my heart ache, she claimed to be in love with someone else, yet wouldn't leave me alone you should have let me have another chance.

AW- why did you let her use your phone to text me then deny it, you told me they had a love like you'd never seen but you thought me and CE were good together, that hurt

CE-I f**d up but you will always be the one closest to my heart, i so wish i could have had children with you and given you happiness forever, i have beaten myself up everyday for 20 years, i have tried to move on and forget but to my dying day i would give anything to have your trust again

WinterWhore · 04/12/2020 20:51

I pray you wake up for your mommy and daddy my sweet girl. We all miss you so much, your mommy and daddy will never be the same again. I know your strong enough, I never made it clear how much I love you my darling niece but I love you like my own. Wake up and show us those beautiful eyes. I love you so much princess xx

averageguy44 · 04/12/2020 21:00

CE-- When you told me you wanted to go away for the weekend with RK i knew it was wrong, you held me in your arms on the Friday night and told you loved me and by Tuesday i'd been almost ghosted......18 years later i still wish i'd begged you not to go away that weekend, without you my heart will always be broken.

Posturesorposes · 04/12/2020 21:02

I wish you knew how I feel, how things feel. I wish things were different.

nitsandwormsdodger · 04/12/2020 21:19

I don't understand why you have ghosted me , you were my friend for 10 years. It's sooooo weird, you were texting me 3x a day at the start of March them nothing , I even panicked you had died from covid

Wtf did I do wrong? We never had a cross word or issue???

Bumblebee57 · 04/12/2020 22:43

Nc for me.

  1. Stop being a demanding woman because i dont drop everything at the sound of the phone for you....i remember the promises of help with dd and then you other child needed help for his step child leaving us in s☆it because his children are more important than mine every bloody time. Your son may not say anything but deep down he knows we arent welcome because we dont like you being taken advantage of by them. Just once i wish you cared about us the way we do about you...or at least did the respect and loyalty has gone and i will not forget how you have made my child feel.
  1. I trusted you and you dropped me when someone better came along, everything i told you in confidence you shared and even got your dd involved....the apple didnt fall far from the tree with her. Watching from afar at the next friendship you destroy because this isnt the first. But i dont blame you i blame me for my bad taste in friends but it will be a lesson learned for next time...watch out that pedestal is very high you seem to have put yourself on. Fucking evil bit☆hface.
  1. I needed you and all you wanted was drama with no.2 after 8 years you destroyed it but what you and no.2 seem to forget is i know a lot of stuff about you both...stuff that could destroy your lives and your childrens but would i ever do that....no because i am a much bigger person you were the ones who lost a good friend all i did was see people for their true colours. I may say hello but it will be behind gritted teeth dont expect anymore from me.
  1. I love you, you drive me crazy sometimes. Stop being so hard work, maybe try and be romantic and for gods sake pop the question ive waited long enough im not bothered about a wedding i want a marriage with you!
  1. I love the bones of you,your my best friend and i love you but seriously get off your phone and interact with those gorgeous children of yours just because it looks good on a photo for social media doesnt mean thats all the kids need to remember from their childhood because thats all they do is pose!!
  1. You make me smile everyday, i miss you so much and still get upset I am sorry i wasnt there at the end but i promise i will look after her as best as i can. I know i am failing but i am trying my best and maybe one day i will get there. I am making sure those people who you warned me about stop taking advantage of her and i think its working please look over her and make sure shes safe when im not there. Id give anything for one day, one hour even 5 mins miss you so much!
  1. Stop being a drama and having high expectations then moan your single...your a catch but your trying to hard and wanted everything all perfect...life isn't like a film
(Tbh i have said this one to this person but its not sunk in so defo need to say it again)

Sorry if its a bit long.....

BeanieB2020 · 05/12/2020 02:33

You are the only reason I have enjoyed this year, and I hate how he treats you. You're worth so much more than what you have. Just because something has been happening for so long that you don't remember life without it, that doesn't mean that thing is good for you.

unipixie · 14/12/2020 15:20

Yeah I know you chat shit about me whenever I come to pickup. I know you've found me on here, because of a pic I posted, Julie. You're not very discreet, you, Debbie, and co. You just make yourself look increasingly stupid, and extremely childish. I laugh at you every day. Every day. You spineless bitches

SheldonesqueIsUnwell · 14/12/2020 15:26

C - I wish you no good will whatsoever. You are the nastiest bastard I’ve ever had the displeasure to know (even beating my abusive ex). I’d rather have been beaten again by him than the abject misery you put me through for years.

And to those who covered up for you? I will never forget your part in it. It makes you as bad as he was.

unipixie · 14/12/2020 15:34

I don't understand the hold you have over me. I can't explain why it's lasted so long. Every time I hear your voice, or see you, it's back again. I adore you, and I hate you

praepondero · 15/12/2020 13:26

This is for you, Hamster.
Stop being such a needy, sly, despicable dredge of humanity and try to acquire something resembling, even vaguely, a moral compass. You know what you have done and you should know it's inexcusable, completely.
Karma will kick you up your saggy arse and you will stay in Purgatory for the rest of your miserable days.
You cross me again and shit will hit the fan so badly you wish you were on another planet. I promise.
I'll always keep my promises.