This thread is for leaving a message for someone without mentioning their name etc

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I'm sorry I can't visit you. You are 100 years old now. I think about you everyday.

D, this is not the ending our family deserved, you messed everything up and we can never go back. My children will never know a Xmas or birthday with the whole family there and it's all your fault. It can never go back to how it was before because of your selfish acts. I love you but I can never trust you again, and M is a fool for sticking by your aide.

B, I really would have loved to have a conversation with you as an adult. I'm sorry we never got the chance.

V, you are a wicked, evil man, I sincerely hope you are being punished for what you did to my mother.

I wish I could meet your daughter.

Next time you decide to be 'helpful' and do some laundry, please don't put my most favourite lovely jumper in a hot wash. I'm sick of you being so fucking careless with my things.

I didn't know what happened at the time. I'm sorry the world made you feel you had to run. You lit a fire in me that has made me get my qualifications and my career began with you.

Thank you for holding me in the worst year of my life. Thank you for showing me I had a gift. Thank you for being you.

I know you're pissed off with me, but blocking me from doing the job you're paying me to do is not an effective management strategy. I still get paid, even if there's no job satisfaction. You however will look crap on a very large scale because the goods will be substandard. But if you're that insecure that's how you want to play it, that's fine. Really fucking stupid, but fine. Ps, I'm resigning before Christmas. I don't need to be dealing with your shit anymore you ridiculous woman.

I really miss you right now. I think you know that but I don't think I can just come out and say it because it's awkward and we're both too awkward. I hate that lockdown has meant I can't see you for ages. I wish it was less complicated to just ask if you want to go for a walk together, but it is, so I can't, but I think you probably know that too. I think you're having a harder time than you're letting on, and I'm sorry, but I'm here any time and in the meantime I'll just keep sending you funny things I find online in the hope they cheer you up. Looking forward to seeing you again soon.

I never told you the truth of the depth of my feelings. Because I'm a coward. There's no point, I can't be with you. I just didn't realise that I'd never forget you and never move on

Thank you for keeping me safe.

I forgive you for the time you didn't.

I want you to know you deserve a hug from me, one day I will do it. I'm so sorry life has been so shit for you. It is not your fault. Not. We will get through this I promise you

He everything we though he would be and more, you have left a massive hole in my life, i am strong and look to be fine, I hurt every day, every time he laughs or does something clever, I think Nana would have loved that. I am bloody good at this though just like you said I would be, but I crave your advice, guidance and making us laugh, our lives shine a little less brightly now you are gone.

I'm sorry it took us so long to get him here, so you only knew him for 5 months after dreaming of him for years and then for you to leave us so suddenly, life is cruel, so so cruel. We love you to the moon and back forever.

I think about you multiple times a day. I miss you so much.

Before you accuse me of ghosting you and assuming that I’m “fine” because someone else has seen me, why didn’t you bother to check I was actually okay yourself? Because I wasn’t. I was the last person who texted, so that’s on you.

You are a shitty friend. You did a shitty thing to miss my birthday and you did it on purpose. Then you did a shitty thing to ignore my message. You just want people to adore you and worship you. I made a huge huge mistake asking for your help and trusting your friendship and I've seen you for what you truly are.

I loved you and never had the balls to say so. I miss you, and hope you are very happy.

You were the father I always wanted, but we never met as adults because you died. I’m really angry at you for dying. I don’t understand it and I think it’s wrong. You were such a wonderful man and I’m so cross you didn’t stop yourself from dying and leaving me.

I'm glad you're gone. It's long overdue. You had too many years of being the narcissistic bully. Moving away for a new start might be a good option - but I don't believe you'll change.

You, on the other hand, have changed, for the worse. Never satisfied, nitpicking and hectoring. I remember you as being quite laid back, with a sense of humour. Shame.

If you had lived, you'd be in your fifties now. All those lost years...

You were the most incredible, wonderful mother, I loved you to the ends of the earth. I would give anything you have you back, even for one day. I know how much you would have adored my children and how much you would have enriched their lives, it's so unfair you never met them. You would have been the most loving caring grandmother, and the grandparents they have don't even come close. I will carry those feelings of unfair until the day I die, I will never get over losing you. I've named the most precious girls in my life after you. Thank you for being my mum. I will love you forever and ever.

I'm sorry I wasn't brave enough to tell you the things that were worrying me. It wasn't you, it was my circumstances at the time. I needed security and couldn't see a way to find it with you. We were only 20. I loved you so much and we would have had an amazing life together. I hope you have all the happiness you deserve in life.

I know I’m an adult and should be over it but I haven’t been able to grow up properly without you. I’m so angry that you died

I miss you so terribly. I wish you had met him, my baby boy. You would have adored each other. It's so unfair. I try my hardest to be half the woman and mother you were. It's so much harder without you by my side. I hope I'm doing OK, am I a mess?
I'm scared of forgetting. Our bond, your smell, the sound of your voice. Please keep giving me signs, they keep me going. I love you.

Dear family.

That's not the reason I fell out with my 'wonderful caring mother'

The actual reason is she has spent the 150k from the sale of their house on gambling websites, borrowed thousands off me and when I discovered the truth lied, bribed me and made a huge toxic mess that made me question my entire life.

I have zero intention of ever 'apologising and fixing it'

She's a bitch and you are all blinded by the big fancy words she spouts.

And for the record half of the shit she's told you over the years? I either didn't do or she's changed it to suit her narrative.

Also the wonderful sister and the flashy designer shit you want me to be like? She takes drugs and her boyfriend sells them... as did the one before him.... and he before that.

None of you can understand why but I like the nice peaceful content life I have ... ps the 2 big mortgages you think we have? We actually only have one small one - it was to stop you seeing me as a cash cow

That was quite cathartic.

I wish I could have met you before you passed. Your son is the best person I know and a great husband and father. I'm glad that we could at least give your grandson your name.

I miss you more than I ever thought possible. I hope I did enough to make you feel as loved and important as you were.

I loved you then and still think about you all the time. I'm sorry that I won't ever see you again but I'll never forget you.

You didn't deserve the job, and you know it. You were lucky to be in the position of being very friendly with the hirer. You didn't get the job on merit and now you are pissing off everyone around you with your arrogance. I'm looking forward to watching you fall flat on your arse.

Yes, I have withdrawn from you because I'm tired of watching you withdraw from my children while bleating I'm constantly about how much you want to see them. My children are not, nor will they ever be, a tool for you to brag about. They are human beings who deserve your attention and genuine affection.

I miss you so much. Still can’t believe you’re gone. I wish I could’ve seen you, hugged you and told you how much I love you before you left us. I didn’t expect it so soon and thought we’d have so much more time. I feel so lost without you.

For over 30 years you have shown little interest in me or mine. I became vaguely newsworthy when I had cancer.
Now you are older, can’t drive, stuck at home , you want to be my friend? You want to buy me coffee and go shopping? Methinks you want a free taxi service.
And if you think I am breaking all the rules so you can have your family around you at Christmas while I do the hosting, really, think again.