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Asking for a handhold - DH in ICU

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peachgreen · 04/09/2020 10:56

DH was taken into hospital last night with breathing difficulties. It was pretty minor, the paramedics weren't even going to take him in but we insisted. He's now in an induced coma on a ventilator. He's had 2 negative Covid tests so they don't think it's that but they don't know what it is.

I'm falling apart. He's my whole life. We have a 2 year old who is a complete Daddy's girl. I need him so much. I can't even be with him now because of COVID.

OP posts:
Pericombobulations · 28/10/2020 23:49

Im so sorry to read this. Take care xx

Latenightreader · 28/10/2020 23:51

Oh what devastating news. I’m thinking of you.

Meanameicallmyself20 · 28/10/2020 23:51

Op I’m so sorry xxx

LaundryandDirt · 28/10/2020 23:54

I’m so sorry for your and your daughters loss. May he rest in peace.

Giraffey1 · 28/10/2020 23:55

Oh my lovely, i am so very sorry.

ZombiePara · 28/10/2020 23:58

So sorry for your loss 😔😔

Merriwicks · 28/10/2020 23:58

Omg, i seen your other thread (under different name) and had to come check this one as I was just thinking about you today.i can't believe this. I am so so sorry. I have no words. Thoughts are with you

HettyPain · 28/10/2020 23:59

I'm so, so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family xx

dottiedaisee · 29/10/2020 00:05

Bless you ...such awful news . I hope you have massive support...my heart breaks for you and your family.💕💐💕

riotlady · 29/10/2020 00:06

I’m so sorry, my thoughts are with you

KeziaOAP · 29/10/2020 00:08

peachgreen I'm so very sorry. My thoughts and prayers with you all x

olympicsrock · 29/10/2020 00:09

I am so very sorry for your loss. You and Mike clearly loved each other very much.

BubbasMumma · 29/10/2020 00:09

I'm so so sorry @peachgreen.
Like many others I had been following you and Mike and had to reread your post over and over and over again for my brain to understand the words I was reading.

What a wonderful man Mike sounds like! What beautiful memories you will have of him to share. I hope you have family and/or friends around you at this difficult time. If I could hug you right now, I wouldn't let go.

Lots of love to you and baby girl.
X

LadyCatStark · 29/10/2020 00:10

I’m so so sorry. Your love for him shines through in every post. There aren’t any other words.

Dragongirl10 · 29/10/2020 00:19

So very sorry, he sounds like such a wonderful man

HibiscusNell · 29/10/2020 00:19

I'm so very sorry. 💐

Hm2020 · 29/10/2020 00:24

I am so sorry I have followed on and off not sure if I’ve commeented before name change thoughts are with you and your family Flowers

Onehellofaride · 29/10/2020 00:36

I am so so sorry, he sounds like a wonderful man and his legacy will continue through you and your DD. Sending you both as much love and strength as possible Sad

Halloweiner · 29/10/2020 00:42

So, so sorry for your loss Thanks

OrlandointheWilderness · 29/10/2020 00:43

I'm so so sorry Peach. Mike was obviously a wonderful man. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

mummymayhem18 · 29/10/2020 00:57

I'm so sorry for your loss ❤️

DC3Dakota · 29/10/2020 01:01

Oh no I'm so very, very sorry 💐💐💐 There are no sufficient words of comfort, I know. My Dad's experience with Heart Failure was almost identical. He passed the same way. I know the numb inexplicable shock you're feeling right now, although he wasn't my husband.
You may not feel like you can get through this but you will, I promise 🌷
I'm so truly sorry

MaryTeenOfScots · 29/10/2020 01:19

I'm so so sorry for your loss Flowers

MaudebeGonne · 29/10/2020 01:29

Oh sweetheart. I am so sorry for your loss. Life can be very cruel and unfair.

Fungster · 29/10/2020 01:34

I'm so very, very sorry to read this. I re-read your posts and the thing that struck me is how very, very loved your husband was. I'm sure he knew it, too. I will pray for you all as you navigate your way through this. God bless.