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Asking for a handhold - DH in ICU

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peachgreen · 04/09/2020 10:56

DH was taken into hospital last night with breathing difficulties. It was pretty minor, the paramedics weren't even going to take him in but we insisted. He's now in an induced coma on a ventilator. He's had 2 negative Covid tests so they don't think it's that but they don't know what it is.

I'm falling apart. He's my whole life. We have a 2 year old who is a complete Daddy's girl. I need him so much. I can't even be with him now because of COVID.

OP posts:
thedishonthecoffeetable · 28/10/2020 23:06

So very sorry for your loss xx

dottycat123 · 28/10/2020 23:10

How awful for you and your dd. I'm so sorry, life can be unfair and unjust.

CurryForever · 28/10/2020 23:10

Oh Sweetheart! That's fucking shit. I'm so so sorry.

spongedog · 28/10/2020 23:14

So sorry for your loss,x He sounded an amazing dad and husband.

AchieveBelieve · 28/10/2020 23:14

So very sorry for your loss - hope you and your little girl have some support - my heart goes out to you.

NanTheWiser · 28/10/2020 23:14
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MissCadoganTate · 28/10/2020 23:14

Oh my god. I am so sorry. I gasped so loudly when I read your update. I was praying that it would be good news. Enormous hugs x

mozzzy1 · 28/10/2020 23:14

@peachgreen I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending much love and strength to you Thanksx

Fluffmonkey82 · 28/10/2020 23:16
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MrsMcTats · 28/10/2020 23:19

There are no words of comfort right now, but OP you will go on. You will find a way for you and your DD to build a future together. She needs you and you need her. Please be kind to yourself and take it one day at a time. So sorry for your loss.

Coffeeandaride · 28/10/2020 23:19

I’m so sorry peachgreen Flowers

baggies · 28/10/2020 23:20

So so sorry to read your heartbreaking post. Have had your thread on 'watching' and each day have checked to see your posts. Was so relieved to read that Mike was home with you and your little girl.
The only comfort is he died at home in your bed and you were able to be with him immediately.
Sending you and your little girl much love, will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Rest in peace Mike x

ReefTeeth · 28/10/2020 23:23

Oh I remember your thread in the early days. I'm so very sorry to read this Flowers

toastfiend · 28/10/2020 23:27

I'm so very, very sorry. Words seem completely inadequate, but I'm thinking of you and your little one and hope you have someone with you for support.

SRS29 · 28/10/2020 23:28

Omg I'm so sorry to read this.....no words ....

Inpeace · 28/10/2020 23:29

Oh my goodness I’m so sorry x

Q1w2e3 · 28/10/2020 23:29

I am so sorry to hear this.

LizB62A · 28/10/2020 23:30

Oh gosh, I'm so sorry to read this - I'd just read through all your posts and the last one was unexpected.
I don't know what to say except look after yourself and your little girl and take things in your own way and in your own time....

heathergem · 28/10/2020 23:34

I'm very sorry to read this, I was following your story. Take care.

Changethetoner · 28/10/2020 23:35

So sad, I'm so sorry for you.

jessstan1 · 28/10/2020 23:35

I am so very, very sorry, peachgreen Flowers

MaosChaos · 28/10/2020 23:39

Oh Peachgreen
Still here holding your hand. And we will do everything we can to support you.
Sending love and hugs.

GiraffeWithSwag · 28/10/2020 23:42

💐so very sorry for your loss. Much love and thoughts for you, your little one and all your families xxx

Travelledtheworld · 28/10/2020 23:44

So sorry. Bless you all.

FlibbertyGiblets · 28/10/2020 23:48

So sorry, my deepest condolences to you and the family x

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