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Asking for a handhold - DH in ICU

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peachgreen · 04/09/2020 10:56

DH was taken into hospital last night with breathing difficulties. It was pretty minor, the paramedics weren't even going to take him in but we insisted. He's now in an induced coma on a ventilator. He's had 2 negative Covid tests so they don't think it's that but they don't know what it is.

I'm falling apart. He's my whole life. We have a 2 year old who is a complete Daddy's girl. I need him so much. I can't even be with him now because of COVID.

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toiletpaper · 28/10/2020 22:34

I kept up to date with your story all along and posted a couple of times. I'm so sorry to hear this peach, he seemed to be doing so well Sad xxx

Bythesea315 · 28/10/2020 22:34

Oh I'm so so sorry after everything you have been through thinking of you and sending you lots of love we are here for you

loobylou10 · 28/10/2020 22:36

I am so sorry x

coastergirl · 28/10/2020 22:38

Another one who has been following from the start and I'm just so, so sorry. Sending so much love.

CocoChanel22 · 28/10/2020 22:39

So sorry op, I've just read your whole thread and I'm gutted to read today's update, so sorry, sending you love Thanks

ladycarlotta · 28/10/2020 22:43

Mike sounded so wonderful. I'm so, so sorry. Huge love to you and your little girl xxx

FoodieToo · 28/10/2020 22:45

Oh my goodness, I followed also. So shocked and sad to read this. Sending you love and hugs from Dublin xxxx

Hailtomyteeth · 28/10/2020 22:46

I'm very sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace. Thinking of you and your dd.

dontdillydallytoolong · 28/10/2020 22:47

So heartbreaking. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Flowers

Ismellphantoms · 28/10/2020 22:47

I've also been following from the start. I'm so sorry. You'll go from shock into practical mode. There's so much to do at first. My dad died from the same condition. I was so hoping that as your DH was younger that he'd have a better outcome. We are all here if you need support.

DartmoorDoughnut · 28/10/2020 22:48

Oh Peachy Sad I’ve been quietly following your thread and I’m horrified at your update Sad I am so unbelievably sorry for your loss, sending you and yours so much love

bobby335 · 28/10/2020 22:50

I'm so sorry for your loss 💐

ohfourfoxache · 28/10/2020 22:50

I’m so, so sorry Peach Thanks

Rachie1973 · 28/10/2020 22:51

I’m so sorry Peach x

Flirtydove · 28/10/2020 22:51

I am so very sorry Thanks

LastGoldenDaysOfSummer · 28/10/2020 22:51

So sorry to read this.

SomethingM1ss1ng · 28/10/2020 22:53

I am so sorry..I’ve been following and was salvaged when he came back home. Please keep talking in here until your parents come over...

LarkDescending · 28/10/2020 22:53

I’m so very sorry to hear this awful news peachgreen Flowers

Murinae · 28/10/2020 22:54

So so sorry to hear about Mike. He sounded like a wonderful husband and father. So heartbreaking. I’ve been on the thread from the start as I have cardiomyopathy and my Dad also died at 37 of it 💐

JM10 · 28/10/2020 22:59

I'm so so sorry to hear Mike died. I've followed your story from the start. I can't imagine what you are going through now. I hope you have lots of real life support.

JeffreyJefferson · 28/10/2020 22:59

i’m so so sorry op Flowers

EarringsandLipstick · 28/10/2020 23:03

Oh peach I can't believe it. I'm so sorry you've lost your beloved Mike. I followed the thread all the way, and despite the uncertain situation, was so glad he was home & looking brighter.

I cannot imagine the trauma you went through today 💔

You are in my thoughts. X

balzamico · 28/10/2020 23:03

I'm so sorry to hear your news . I hope Covid doesn't prevent you from getting the love and support to help you through this xx

TerribleCustomerCervix · 28/10/2020 23:04

I’m so sorry OP. He sounded wonderful.

Have you got a support network locally?

Ferrari458 · 28/10/2020 23:05

I am so very, very sorry xxx