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Asking for a handhold - DH in ICU

988 replies

peachgreen · 04/09/2020 10:56

DH was taken into hospital last night with breathing difficulties. It was pretty minor, the paramedics weren't even going to take him in but we insisted. He's now in an induced coma on a ventilator. He's had 2 negative Covid tests so they don't think it's that but they don't know what it is.

I'm falling apart. He's my whole life. We have a 2 year old who is a complete Daddy's girl. I need him so much. I can't even be with him now because of COVID.

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saraclara · 28/10/2020 22:04

Oh no. I am so sorry. How traumatic for you.
I hope you have people around you.

SheldontheWonderSchlong · 28/10/2020 22:04

I'm so very sorry for your loss Thanks

dappledsunshine · 28/10/2020 22:06

I'm so very sorry, what a shock for you. I hope you have lots of support, your love for him shines through in your posts Thanks

Purplecatshopaholic · 28/10/2020 22:07

I am so very sorry to hear this op, my heart really feels for you. I hope you have people around you irl at the moment.

firedragon101 · 28/10/2020 22:10

Oh peach I'm so sorryThanks

Lifeisdinky · 28/10/2020 22:10

so, so sorry , can't imagine how you even managed to type the words.

MacbookHo · 28/10/2020 22:11

Oh peachgreen. I’m so incredibly sorry. Your Mike sounded like the loveliest husband and father in the world. I can’t begin to imagine your shock and sadness. This is the saddest possible news and I wish I could give you a hug. You poor, poor lovely thing. I’m so sorry.

Todaytomorrow09 · 28/10/2020 22:12
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FelicityPike · 28/10/2020 22:12

My thoughts are with you. Flowers

DisappointedOfNorfolk · 28/10/2020 22:15

I'm so sorry Peachgreen, I was so hoping for a happy ending to your story. You have been so brave and loving, and I was so pleased to hear Mike was home with you and your dad.

I hope you have RL support around you, and someone to hold you up while you adjust and come to terms with such a tragic loss, I'm so sorry, I will be thinking of you, take care Thanks.

PeterPomegranate · 28/10/2020 22:16

Oh god. I’m so very very sorry. Do you have someone with you?

BoreOfWhabylon · 28/10/2020 22:18

Oh peachgreen I am so very very sorry. I've followed your thread from the beginning.

No one deserves this, least of all good, loving people like you and Mike.

My heart goes out to you

Emmapeeler2 · 28/10/2020 22:19

I am so sorry for your loss peachgreen.

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salcombebabe · 28/10/2020 22:20

Oh, I’m so so very sorry ☹️ Sending you big comforting hugs 💐

Mykidsapurpleminion · 28/10/2020 22:21

I am so sorry xxx

GameofChess · 28/10/2020 22:21

Oh peach I am so, so sorry. You, your lovely girl, without him. Life can be so unfair.

The relief you must have felt when he was sent home. Then to find him .. I’m so sorry. Flowers

nothingpunny · 28/10/2020 22:24

I'm so very sorry for your loss @peachgreen Flowers

Totp · 28/10/2020 22:24

Oh no
So so sorry

kattekitt · 28/10/2020 22:25

I’m so so sorry, thoughts are with you. Xx

frustrationcentral · 28/10/2020 22:26

So sorry @peachgreen Sadx

RaininSummer · 28/10/2020 22:26

Very sorry to read this Peach.

PastaAndPizzaPlease · 28/10/2020 22:27

I’m so sorry for your loss.

Verybookish · 28/10/2020 22:29

I am so sorry for your loss. This is so sad. I was rooting for the two of you. Please look after yourself. I will pray for you.

Nomorepies · 28/10/2020 22:30

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Lulalulabelle · 28/10/2020 22:30

I’m so sorry Peach. This is absolutely heartbreaking x