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Anti Dementors Party Planners Meet Here

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ThatLibraryMiss · 23/05/2020 22:46

Wanted to make the new thread quickly to get the link onto the last page of the previous one!

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Drivingdownthe101 · 23/05/2020 22:48

Hello!

Waleshasgonecompletelycrazy · 23/05/2020 22:49

Hi all. Shiny new thread for us all

Bollss · 23/05/2020 22:51

HiSmile

ThatLibraryMiss · 23/05/2020 22:51

"Public urination and worse" - what did they think would happen? Did they really, really think that people who've been cooped up for weeks would say, "oh, well, there are no loos in Scarborough, we'll stay home"?

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Weedsnseeds1 · 23/05/2020 22:53

Thanks Librarymiss

AgentCooper · 23/05/2020 22:54

Public urination and worse Grin

TitianaTitsling · 23/05/2020 22:58

Hello all! Am knackered, the child will not sleep or stay in bed anymore- we're on the edge with lack of sleep, usually get out for 2 loooong walks a day to expend some energy but the weather was awful today so cooped up. Gaahhhh! And now I feel shit about feeling like this as of course others have been cooped up with no outdoor space for weeks.

Allnamesaregone · 23/05/2020 22:58

👋 Found you

TitianaTitsling · 23/05/2020 22:58

Sorry, am dementoring on the first page!

TheGreatWave · 23/05/2020 23:00

Well there was a bucket full of human poo found in Whitby, so I'd imagine that had some dealings in the decision. (Same county council)

Weedsnseeds1 · 23/05/2020 23:01

Cherrystone I wouldn't worry that the police will stick their heads in the window. It hasn't been my experience (although I haven't attempted to cross the Severn Bridge yet...). They just ask where you are going, through a closed window and seem fine with "work", "shopping", "exercise" or whatever. I think they may be checking your number plate to see where you have come from, but couldn't swear to that.
I know there have been a few "heavy handed police" stories, but it's not been my experience, or that of anyone I know who has been stopped.
To clarify, I have been stopped a couple of times early on, when nowhere near home.
I have seen the odd car pulled over locally, but I never have been, hence my numberplate theory.
It annoys me that the locals the councils claim to be "protecting" are more inconvenienced by the lack of car parks, toilets etc. than visitors are.

TheCatsBlanket · 23/05/2020 23:04

So happy to have found these threads and even happier when I saw the link to the new one. I'm glad it's not just me that feels the way everyone on here seems to.

rosettesforjill · 23/05/2020 23:05

Checking in!

I think the scariest thing is that I just don't trust the government. I feel vulnerable. We've allowed them to take away so much - and I have complied with it - but what are we going to give our consent to next? They're in a position where many people are so scared that they'll agree to anything.

DrearyWallAntler · 23/05/2020 23:06

I have taken to fashioning my own robes.

Do we have a handshake or a secret nod or wink or something?

justasking111 · 23/05/2020 23:07

Oh I am so tempted to put that Scarborough post on our local council watch page just to make sure the bloody council are geared up with toilets when Wales lowers the draw bridge. They cannot say I did not warn them then. evil Grin

justasking111 · 23/05/2020 23:09

Re: government control two things spring to mind.

  1. A cashless society springs up ( beyond their wildest dreams.)
  2. Every citizen tracked on an app.
TheAdventuresoftheWishingChair · 23/05/2020 23:12

Hello all!

Thank you for all your responses on the last thread. I am regretting trying to get into this subject with certain friends. Debate is healthy but I'm too fragile to broach this with them atm. It's upsetting how incredibly vulnerable I feel right now. I was nearly having a panic attack having said my piece to one of them over text and waiting for their response (which was just 'I could demolish your argument like that' - except they didn't elaborate)

One of my best friends has similar politics and a similar attitude to the situation (thank god or our friendship would be in trouble atm!)

This is the opposite to my situation and it is what is hurting me. I have always believed in having friends with lots of different beliefs and political views and while I still think it's important to have a dialogue with different people, I feel more like I want my closest friends to agree on core things. And it's weird when I'm left wing but all my left wing friends now think I'm callous and right wing for the opinions I hold - I'm not either! And to dismiss an opinion because it sounds right wing?! It's a very dangerous attitude to dismiss everything right wing people say just for the sake of it. There has to be some middle ground otherwise people become incredibly divided. I found a good article in the Daily Mail a few days ago and don't get me wrong, I hate the paper but they have published some useful stuff over the years. You can't dismiss everything published in it just like that.

Watching my middle class (former?) friends agitating for educationally disadvantaged children to be locked out of the universal education to which they are entitled....had been a real eye opener

Yes THIS. None of my friends seem to have any care for those vulnerable children. They haven't come up once in conversation. It baffles me. I'm frightened for what some children are going through right now because god knows it'll be horrendous. Many won't ever get help or will only speak up about their experiences in adulthood.

One of the problems with the so-called left wing is that they arrogate a moral high ground they have no right to and just presume that whatever they espouse is right and everyone who opposes it is evil

I've been seeing this for a while now and it's so dismaying. And my friends who I'm having issues with are all Corbyn supporters, which someone else mentioned on the other thread.

I feel very wobbly but much better for talking to you all on here. Still sick of this whole issue. I wish the government would sort out contact tracing so we have another tool to help us. And I will just keep hoping that as the weeks go by, we don't get a significant spike in cases - it will quieten down a lot of dementor voices.

MagdaS · 23/05/2020 23:22

Checking in. Another left winger feeling very underrepresented in the world right now. To be honest I've felt this since the coalition, but it's far worse now.

MinesaPinot · 23/05/2020 23:23

Another thread - I can't keep up!

CruCru · 23/05/2020 23:24

Crumbs these go fast. I can’t keep up.

bookworm14 · 23/05/2020 23:37

Checking in.

Shodan · 23/05/2020 23:37

Checking in again!

Today's high spot has been the consumption of an entire malt loaf. All by myself.

I need it for the energy to go on two separate murder sprees tomorrow. Two long walks, one am, one pm.

I have grown to hate walking. I may take up rollerskating instead. I could murder people far more efficiently then. Plus, it would be cool to add another group for the frothers to froth about Grin

savehalloween · 23/05/2020 23:37

Found it quickly this time!

LivinLaVidaLoki · 23/05/2020 23:44

I've been bobbing in and out of these threads for a while but usually throwing in some positive stats or tales of murder. But tonight, for the first time in this whole thing I am laying here in bed, holding back tears.
The longest lockdown was in china, this was 2 months and two weeks and two days. Why are we still here?
Why are we throwing our children's education under the bus, our children and our own mental health, screening and treating people with other conditions? Why???? For a virus with a 99.5% survival rate. Which is currently affecting approx 170k in the whole 66.5million population?
Why are we sacrificing ours and our children's future in this way, why is this OK????
Surely it's time to shield those who need shielding and let the rest of us get on with it. This has been rejected as a violation of the human rights of those affected, but what about our children's rights?
Why cant we have discussion around this without being called murderers? Why are those that shout the loudest driving policy (couldn't give a flying fuck what Boris says about 'following the science' the science shows infection rates are dropping, the prevalence is tiny and the mortality rate is 0.5% he is just going for what he thinks will get him more votes).
I have never felt so powerless (and I'll be honest-lonely) in my life.
DH gets to go into his office and actually talk to people, go play golf. In the meantime I get a sore back from sitting at my dining table all day and the only conversation i have is about work. Only i work in children's services so I see, all day every day what we are doing to our children.
My own son got so happy the other night as he had an ice cream from the ice cream man, it was pure unadulterated joy. Fuck me it was the happiest he's been in 2 months!!! How fucking tragic is that???
A friend works in a GP surgery. They had a patient die a few weeks ago as the gp couldn't physically examine them, so thought they just had an infection and kept prescribing anti biotics. Turns out it was something else but as they couldn't be examined it was missed.
So Powys can fuck off every time he beats that the nhs is open. It ain't.
Why does none of this matter? Why is none of this as important as covid?

fartingsparkles · 23/05/2020 23:44

Heigh ho, heigh ho its anti dementoring we go!!

@Dreary - just wink twice and him Don't Fear The Reaper 🤣