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Anti Dementors, Assemble!

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Mascotte · 11/05/2020 17:46

I think I finished the last thread by accident...

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fairycrossthemersey · 13/05/2020 11:49

I'm not in the UK - we can now socialise with up to 10 people at a time.

Apparently it is "suicide, frankly".

(I know the poster was referring to the UK, but that isn't the advice in the UK at the moment. When it is deemed to be OK, I doubt it will be suicide).

LilacTree1 · 13/05/2020 11:59

ISaySteadyOn oh wow, someone likes my dementor!

It’s Odilon Redon.

Agree with several posters that these teachers either hate children or want to stay at home. I have no idea why some of them become teachers.

I try not to say too much about myself on here but having worked in hospitality before I got canned because of all this, the only group I dread coming in was a teacher group.

They were incredibly rude and I didn’t find that of any other profession. The whole team used to dread a teacher booking.

Hopefully some of today’s headlines about the cost of things will make the “stay in forever” types wake up.

Mascotte · 13/05/2020 12:02

@GoatyGoatyMingeMinge love that!

In hapoy news, two people i know on Facebook have posted anti dementor stuff this morning. Maybe the tide is turning after all

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DesmondTheMoonbear · 13/05/2020 12:03

Maybe this sounds terrible but I'm so sick and tired of people on MN constantly banging on about the importance of people's lives and how they're so much more important than the economy. Yes people's lives matter but lockdown is costing lives too and keeping people alive is not the only thing we have to or should consider. Like mental heath, people with other illnesses, human rights, quality of life and of course the economy

Why is it only Covid victims who matter to them? I bet most of them drive cars, cars which cost lives from accidents and pollution. Yet I doubt that they'd all be happy to give up their car" because if it saves even one life, it's worth it" I assume that they never buy any unnecessary goods either because people sometimes die transporting and manufacturing those goods, especially in developing Nations. Do they do everything they can to fund research into cancer, heart disease and defects, MND, to improve mental health, reduce domestic violence, poverty, disease in developing nations etc? They've never bought anything frivolous when the money could have been spent on saving lives? I doubt it because it is not feasible to live like that. Yet they seem only too happy to scream at everyone else about how saving lives is all that matters.

Mascotte · 13/05/2020 12:03

Though I did see someone walking back from the shop with his special shopping gloves stuck in his back pocket, presumably for re use and obviously touched to put them there

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freedomyes · 13/05/2020 12:05

hello people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

well I live 1 hr from the coast. I`ve been checking all the coastal webcams. its EMPTY.

so Im making a flask of tea, some sarnies and after lunch Im GOING TO THE FUCKING BEACH.

freedomyes · 13/05/2020 12:07

DH is a secondary teacher. Hes piss bored and wants to go back to work by the way. he also an anti dementor. In a couple of days were all going to the beach and for chips (I`ve checked the chippy is open). Today its just me, a looonnng walk and maybe a paddle.

Mascotte · 13/05/2020 12:08

@Willitneverend that poem.. I knew I shouldn't have looked... dear god. Dear god.

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BlackberryViolet · 13/05/2020 12:13

Enjoy the beach! I’ve just checked the tide times and the dog friendly local beach will be OK after work, High tide isn’t until after it gets dark so we should have enough spaceSmile

Willow2017 · 13/05/2020 12:20

DesmondTheMoonbear

Exactly.

Sick to death of nothing matters except 'Covid' threads. Life is one big series of risk assessments we do without even thinking about them.
All these people who are 'staying indoors for months until thier personal safety is guarenteed' could die the day they first step out their doors around june 2021 in any number of ways yet that doesnt cross their minds.

But thier shopping deliveries matter, their electricity matters, their internet matters, their bin collections matter etc etc as long as someone else is doing it for them!

We are turning into a nation of self satisified cowards.

Springersrock · 13/05/2020 12:23

Afternoon

I ventured out to the beach this morning at about 10am for a couple of hours to walk the dog. There was one other person on it the whole time, also walking their dog.

Far from the packed beaches/just like a normal summer weekend/the tourists are coming that the local dementors were worrying about yesterday

There was nothing actually stopping me before as I can walk to it in about 5 minutes, but the fear of ending up on a FB shaming post massively put me off

Willow2017 · 13/05/2020 12:24

Willitneverend

Oh FGS that poem! I noticed it said not to be hard or judgemental on yourself...nothing about not judging others you know nothing about! Boak!

Drivingdownthe101 · 13/05/2020 12:25

I wish I lived near the beach.

thesuninsagittarius · 13/05/2020 12:36

@GoatyGoatyMingeMinge I've nicked that picture to put on Facebook, it's brilliant!
So weary of the lack of critical thinking and assessment of own risk. It's all 'the govt. says blah blah not SAFE...blah blah...two metres apart...blah blah...should I REPORT my neighbour?...blah blah PEOPLE ARE DYING! MILLIONS OF CHILDREN WILL DIE!...froth froth...NO ONE can leave their house or do anything until I FEEL SAFE! Oh, but I still want my groceries and prescriptions delivered and it doesn't matter if my children are becoming mentally ill. I AM VULNERABLE so no one else is allowed to have a life!'
Had to step away from a couple of friends. I understand if you have a health condition and are 'shielding' whatever that means, but you don't get to dictate what everyone else does because of your own anxiety.

thenightsky · 13/05/2020 12:37

GoatyGoatyMingeMinge I love that pic and caption! When I'm feeling drunk brave I shall post it on FB.

SirSamuelVimesBlackboardMonito · 13/05/2020 12:37

I definitely think the fact that so many teachers are unhappy in the profession is a part of this reaction. I was driven to a full on mental breakdown, anxiety, depression, insomnia, suicidal ideation etc, by teaching. I would have grabbed at this opportunity to stay away like a drowning man for a rope. That's not individual's fault, that's the fault of successive government who have run the profession into the ground.

If the governing is serious about getting schools back up & running they need to treat it like they did the NHS. Nightingale level plans for schools.

Step 1: huge recruiting drive for qualified teachers who aren't working - with the woeful retention rate there's plenty of us. Government run central supply agency of additional staff who are paid to the national pay scale, and can be brought in by schools to provide enough staffing to split classes and cover for teachers who have to shield.

Step 2: bulk purchase & distribution of temporary, demountable classrooms. Get these up on school fields, car parks, playgrounds to provide the additional physical space needed to enable some level (prob more like 1m) of social distancing. Also buy the furniture needed for these; very few schools have single person desks. For schools without space to put up temporary classrooms, requisition local buildings and convert, and operate a split site.

Step 3: More bulk purchase and installation - hand sanitizer pumps on every classroom door, and at entry to the school grounds. Temperature checkers to be provided for every school.

Step 4: Order schools to cancel all cpd crap & directed time so that teachers can leave site as soon as the teaching day is over. No squeezing the whole staff into the hall or staffroom for meetings. Info is sent via email, meetings are done by zoom or teams. No parents evening - remote via zoom etc or written reports instead.

Step 5: Get rid of attendance policies that encourage parents to send ill children to school. Get rid of attendance policies that encourage staff to come in when ill.

Step 6: Allow schools to suspend / expel students who deliberately attempt to harm staff (i.e spitting at or coughing on staff). At the moment it's incredibly hard to actually get rid of kids. I taught long enough to know that it's not particularly unusual for students to assault staff and for the staff to be expected to carry on with them in their class as though nothing has happened. If the police can arrest you for spitting at them & claiming to have Covid, teachers should be able to kick someone out for doing the same thing.

Where I do have a lot of sympathy for teachers is it seems to be the government are setting the timetable but doing nothing to actually help, just washing their hands of the problem.

trappedsincesundaymorn · 13/05/2020 12:38

Thank heavens for that poem...I've been wondering what to do over the last 8 weeks and now I know. After all it's not like I've done any of that before now.*

*WARNING...this post contains the use of heavy sarcasm.

fairycrossthemersey · 13/05/2020 12:39

@Drivingdownthe101

I wish I was driving down the 101!

SomewhereEast · 13/05/2020 12:42

Just had a really calm sensible letter from the DCs' primary school about how they fully intend to open to the relevant years when allowed & stressing their desire to support the kids' social & emotional well-being in doing that. It doesn't surprise me as the head is fab (very hands on & pastoral, obviously genuinely likes kids) but it was still nice.

HangryChip · 13/05/2020 12:43

So what is the split between dementors and anti dementors because I feel like the minority in real life

Mascotte · 13/05/2020 12:44

@trappedsincesundaymorn I feel better that we're all in it together

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Drivingdownthe101 · 13/05/2020 12:44

fairycrossthemersey yes and that Grin

thenightsky · 13/05/2020 12:44

I can't find the SNP poem on google. Does someone have a link please?

Willow2017 · 13/05/2020 12:53

Its a video on thier twitter page! They actually persuaded people to spout this crap to make a cutesie video.

Mascotte · 13/05/2020 12:54

It's on the Facebook page.. but I feel dirty now so proceed with caution @nightsky

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