Ok. Never told a soul this.
My now ex had assaulted me several times. Severely.
On one night, he was coming up the stairs, roaring at me. I was at the top of the stairs and hit him over the head with a bottle of budweiser.
On another occasion, same dude, was banging and battering and creating a nuisance outside. I opened the door with a hurl in my hand, ready to swing at him. He grabbed it off me and broke it over his knee.
We didn't get to hear Caroline's side. Have some respect.