Rewatching those clips, the thing that struck me the most was how angry Jade was during that oxocube flight. It was like she physically couldn't control herself and just had to keep screaming. It was really strange (and horrible) to watch. A PP said they didn't like Shilpa because she wouldn't let it go after an apology was given, but from I saw, Shilpa did say she had misstated the shopping list comment, and it was Jade who just kept on and on and couldn't let it drop.
I thought she (and the other 3) came across as very unkind and it absolutely came across as bullying. That said, I actually had (the tiniest bit) more respect for Jade than the others purely because in the interview afterwards, at least she owned what she had done and seemed genuinely contrite, unlike Jo and Danielle who seemed vaguely confused there was even an issue.
Another PP said that if a middle-class white male had said half of those things there wouldn't be this fuss - I actually agree with this. The other day on the Jeremey Vine show when Yasmin Alibhai-Brown and Godfery Bloom were on, he purposefully mispronounced her name as Yasmin Alibaba-Brown and I have certainly seen very little come back on that, although it is in a very similar vein to the poppadom comment.
I wasn't a fan of Jade, but I do think her upbringing and the papers played a very big part in how things went for her. Unfortunately, I don't think she was savvy enough to know how not to feed into the papers, and I imagine they were sat rubbing their hands in glee anytime she did or said anything vaguely controversial, which doesn't cover them in glory either.
And as for Shilpa, I thought she was classy and kind - to genuinely not want Jade to suffer the public's outrage despite what she (Jade) had put her (Shilpa) through takes a special kind of person.