How often has your significant other shouted at you?

[GymKitJen]

Like raised their voice in an argument?

I don't think I've ever been shouted at, but I can remember just once shouting at a boyfriend. He had just shouted at his mum for no good reason (he was drunk) and took my arm and expected me to go storm out with him. I rather loudly told him to get the hell off me and how dare he treat his mum like that?! He was shocked and realised immediately he was wrong.

Never, he doesn't shout, I've shouted at him a couple of times though ☹️

I would never normally tolerate shouting in a relationship.

Never here too. Together 19 years, some of them very tough but shouting we've never done. Ive raised my voice but DH haa never done that either.

Quite a lot, although more "raised voice" than shouting..same for me..and only once in front of the kids, in the car when he confessed he hadn't brought his keys knowing the cleaner was popping mine through the letterbox so we were locked out. The 4 year old burst into tears. We've never even disagreed in front of the children since.

My parents were (and still are) screaming shouting slamming doors shouters so I've always got that in the back of my mind and how terrified I felt as a child. I was distraught to think my little boy was feeling the same I had.

Never. We get frustrated at each other but we never shout. I grew up in a very shouty family and I hated it.

Never in 11 years. Even when he is upset/angry he is in full control of his emotions.

Never.
We tend to have our grumble alone and then make a decision if it's a small issue to leave it be and if it's a real issue then talk calmly later.

There's been occasional frustrated snapping, but never raised voices or shouting.

Fuck me we shout at each other frequently! Frustrations are out in the open and no resentment ever. Still married after 28 years so we’re doing ok.

In almost 23 years, never.
I have though. Half because of anxiety, half because my hearing is shit and I don't realise I'm raising my voice.

Not shouting though.

8 years and never.

Never. Cross words occasionally, shouting never. Been together 26 years and married 21 years.

Same here dot

We raise our voices a lot. But we are both loud animated people. I’ve never felt scared, we’re just loud.

Never shouting. We have probably both raised our voices a couple of times. Together 19 years. We almost never have rows.

Never

I am the shouty one. About every other month I shout. He almost never does but is a button pusher. 20 years together.

A very occasional slightly raised frustrated voice moment from both of us over the years (always with apologies afterwards), but neither of us has ever shouted

Same

We've had raised arguments but we've never actually shouted at each other. We never throw insults either.

Been together 9 years.

Never. Not properly. He might raise his voice when he gets a bit animated but he's never shouted "at" me.

A fair few times - only when it’s just us alone and never around the kids. We’ve been together 10 years and have a proper shout at each other every few months I think. But I can only really remember one REALLY bad shouty episode, the rest are just because we’re firey and it’s quickly forgotten!

I genuinely don't think he ever has. I've actually never seen him raise his voice at anyone

Never once. Been together 7 years, married 4. He has never shouted at me and I don't think I could tolerate it if he did.

I can count on one hand the number of times he's even snapped / sounded exasperated to be honest.

Maybe once or twice in 5 years...just raising voice in a disagreement though he's never shouted. My ex on the other hand...

He'd have to be very, very far pushed to do so. I'd say maybe 2 or 3 times in 10 years and it was really scary because I didn't expect it. Why do you ask OP?