If you’re married but didn’t change your name what title do you have?

[Owlbabie5]

Miss, Ms or Mrs?

Dr, but will opt for Ms on forms.

Ms

Mrs.

Ms of course

before marriage-
me: Ms Myname
partner: Mr Hisname

after marriage-
me: Ms Myname
husband: Mr Hisname

sooooo simple

Ms. To be honest, I was using Ms before I got married, so there was no change when I did get married.

Dr.

I choose Mr. on forms if there's no Dr. box!

Ha, newtlover has it spot on.

Dr, but Ms if that isn’t an option, both before and after marriage.

Ms, exactly as I did before I was married.

My husband didn’t change his name or title either, btw

Another one of us who was Dr.

Not having to play to the whole Mrs/Miss bollocks is a major reason to go through a doctorate.

So can it be anything? Filling out the application form and got to decide if I’m changing my name. Hadn’t thought I would. If you say you are on the form is that it? Kind of thought I’d keep my name with the option of changing further down the line if I changed my mind.

Dr, but before I was Ms, except at college where they insisted I had to be Miss or Mrs, I choose Miss (they wouldn't make that fuss nowadays) and pretend to be a famous actress.

Ms
Hoping it will be Dr in next couple of years...

I understand why you are struggling with this. You are not miss anymore, and you haven’t married your dad, so you can’t be mrs dad’ssurname. Ms has so often been used by divorced women that it seems inappropriate if you are just getting married.

Maybe if enough of us use Ms, then it would seem different.

But I understand why you are struggling with it.

Ms - I've always used this title.

Ms. Started changing my title gradually as stuff needed renewed a few years before we married.

Mrs when I’m filling out new forms, but all my old memberships etc still say Ms.
I’m not fussed whether people can tell I’m married from my paperwork. And DH quite likes me to use Mrs even though I kept my name as did he.
It means he sometimes gets called Mr Myname, bc people assume my surname must be his, which I quite like 😁

Ms has so often been used by divorced women that it seems inappropriate if you are just getting married.

Really?

But Ms is the title you use if you're not married or if you're married? Won't divorced women be a small minority here?

I’m still Mrs First husband

Too lazy to change passport, bank etc
Also it’s my kids and grandkids name and h2 Nd husband isn’t bothered.

I'm really surprised so many use the title Ms. I personally just don't like the sound of the word. I'm not married but if I was I wouldn't change my name, but would probably go to Mrs (rather than Miss).

As far as possible I don't put down a title at all (much harder now that everything is on computer!)

For serious things I use Ms but don't like it..just sounds like Miss when said out loud.

For everything else I use whatever the best title in the drop down menu is...eg Tesco delivery for Countess mysurname

Señora Coño where I live.
Ms Coño when I'm in the UK.

I’m not keen on Ms either. I’m all in favour of a female title that doesn’t tie in to marital status - I just think it’s an awkward word. Two letters that don’t really go together, like an abbreviation that only really works written down.
It’s a shame.
I still use Mrs even though I’m nearly divorced.

I have been Ms since I was about 12

Ms, same as before I got married.