Would you judge this parent?

[Sparrowlegs248]

If a parent turned up at a school event, such as sports day, nativity etc, dressed in untidy/dirty work clothes. Pre school or early primary age children. Parent is self employed, tradesperson. Not filthy but obviously less clean and tidy than an office worker.

No. I would be glad they made it there for their child.

Wouldn't bother me, least they turned up.

No, I'd think they had had to come straight from work with no chance to change, no big deal.

Absolutely NOT .
I’d judge any one that judged that person though.

No. Definitely not. I would assume they had dashed from a job to attend the event.

No, not at all.

No, I would just think that they had rushed straight from work to see their child, which is a good thing in my book!

No not all, would think how lovely they have managed to nip out of work to watch their child

No. Is this a reverse?

It's their work gear, I wouldn't judge them any different to an office working parent who shows up in a suit...

No, not at all if it looked worky as you describe. I probably would a bit if it was someone who clearly just didn't like to wash if I'm being really honest.

Absolutely not.

So long as they weren't super smelly, mind you, officewear can get pretty smelly after a long day in a hot office and horrible commute. How dirty are we talking?

No. They would have obviously come from work to see their child’s sports day. Just like a lot of the other parents.

No. Were any comments passed?

Definetely not at least they showed up

Not at all. They made an effort to be there for their child. There are a couple of dads at school pick up who come like this and no one bats an eyelid.

I remember at my DC's old school, there was a single mum who used to move heaven and earth to come to events for her DC and she must have done a manual / trades job as she always rushed in slightly late in dirty hi-vis. I admired her slightly for her commitment!!

I wouldn't. And I'm a very judgemental person.
Although if the person smelled (for example worked at a sewage works etc) then I would wonder why they didn't bring a change of clothes.

I wouldn't judge at all. They are working to provide for their children.

Lots used to turn up like to my kids school events, no differnt to me arriving in my carers tunic we were all there to watch our dc

Not at all. It's usually obvious someone's clothes are dirty due to being a trades person. If someone turned up in a dirty tracksuit stinking of smoke with half their dinner slopped down the front that would be different but I would still be impressed they made the effort to come to their childs event.

No way!

Nope!

No but i would sure as hell judge the stuck up twats who judged the parents who do turn up as so 🤷‍♀️

No! Would anyone really??? I might not want to brush past them though ie keep a slightly wide berth but that's because I'm an anal so and so

But id think to myself that they'd made an effort to get there