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How old were you when you had your first?

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FairyLightFiend · 20/12/2018 09:25

I’m 34 and TTC. Having always thought I only wanted one, I’m now thinking that we might want a larger family (two or three) and am wondering if we’ve left it too late.

So can I ask; how old were you when you had your first child and how many do you have now?

OP posts:
weediva · 20/12/2018 14:47

Oops that was meant to be dd - bloody predictive text 😩

Taffeta · 20/12/2018 14:49

36 and second one at 39
A miscarriage before each one

BubblesBubblesBubbles · 20/12/2018 15:16

27 and 29!

Now mid 30’s and debating a last but highly unlikely to happen naturally!

Dh isn’t too keen as he’s a 10 years older than me and doesn’t want to go back to the baby stage.

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mejon · 20/12/2018 15:25

38 for first then a couple of months short of 43 for 2nd. You have plenty of time. Good luck Flowers

HolgerLowCarbingLoser · 20/12/2018 15:27

I was 19. I have two.

HolgerLowCarbingLoser · 20/12/2018 15:29

Also, you may not want more than one, or two. So I wouldn’t worry about it yet.

SuperstarDJ · 20/12/2018 15:29

1st - 38
2nd - 40

Flamingosnbears · 20/12/2018 15:32

I was 25 I have two and one on the way ... I'm now 30

OneMoreWish · 20/12/2018 15:33

Pregnant at 34, had first child at 35. 20 months later I will be having my second child at 36.

Good luck and congratulations xxx

Berniethefastestmilkwoman · 20/12/2018 15:39

32 and I have 3.

LadyOfTheFlowers · 20/12/2018 15:42

First at 22, last at 27, 4 total, I'm 35 now.

headstone · 20/12/2018 15:44

I had mine at 24,31 and 34. I would like 1 or 2 more but my womb is a bit damaged now so we will have to see if it happens or not. You probably haven’t left it too late hoov1 in 7 will have problems.

christmasfoof · 20/12/2018 15:45

First and only at 19, I'm 30 now and keep getting intrusive thoughts about wanting another. That may be due to hormones though!

LordPickle · 20/12/2018 15:46

I was 36

LadyRochfordsFrostedGusset · 20/12/2018 15:51

21 and 27. Two miscarriages in between.

Thanks and wishing you good luck OP.

applecatchers36 · 20/12/2018 15:52

Had my first at 35 and went on to have 2 more with 2 and a half year age gap each time.. You have time...

ImNotWhoYouThinkIam · 20/12/2018 15:54

First at 19. Second at 22.
Now struggling to concieve at 34 Sad

fussychica · 20/12/2018 16:26

36 and I. He was the easiest baby and I didn't think I could get that lucky twice so stuck at 1. Wink No regrets. He's 26 now.

Frenchmom · 20/12/2018 16:48

37, 39 and 41.

costacoffeecup · 20/12/2018 17:38

34 and all being well second due next month at 38 (only just!) That will 100% be it.

VictoriaBun · 20/12/2018 17:39

First 21. Second 25.

Wheresmrlion · 20/12/2018 18:34

First 34, second 36. Felt like good ages for us.

I know MN is full of people conceiving easily at 43 but several people I know are now struggling ttc at 40+ having thought it would be fine. So you’ve got time for three but realistically would need fairly close gaps.

ALongHardWinter · 20/12/2018 18:54
IggyAce · 20/12/2018 18:56

28 and have 2.

Fatted · 20/12/2018 18:58

32 when I had my first. I had my youngest the day before my 35th birthday.

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