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How many staggeringly good looking people do you know in real life?

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DuggeesWooOOooggle · 11/12/2018 18:55

Just following on from my 'oh my god I've just discovered Richard Armitage' thread (and do watch North and South if you have not already done so!). Musing on how gorgeous he is got me thinking.

How many really good looking people do you know in real life? I'm not talking 'eye of the beholder' type beauty, but real, classical, can't argue with it beauty (male or female)? There's a girl works in our office who I think is just beautiful - she always looks so glamorous without being showy or too made up, long blond hair with a slight curl. Very elegant. She makes everyone else look like saggy puddings. And she's probably very nice too (doesn't work in my section, it's a big place).

It made me think how very few people I know or even see like this on a daily basis - most people are just very average looking (myself included!). I can't remember the last time I saw a really handsome man. I do remember a chap I saw across a bar when I was about 22, with the most amazing cheekbones. He was just beautiful. Not in a fancying kind of way, just in a 'I could look at you for hours' kind of way. But I genuinely can't think of any since. Plenty of men I have found sexy but that's different, the two don't always overlap.

I'm probably not explaining myself very well. Maybe I just move in the wrong circles! Maybe they are all celebrities these days.

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blaaake · 11/12/2018 18:56

Only one. Me. Halo

DuggeesWooOOooggle · 11/12/2018 18:57

blaaake Grin

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SlowlyShrinking · 11/12/2018 19:00

None, that I can think of

SlowlyShrinking · 11/12/2018 19:01

Apart from blaaake of course Wink

DramaAlpaca · 11/12/2018 19:02

Honestly, none.

apart from blaaake Wink

WinnieFosterTether · 11/12/2018 19:04

Not that many tbh. One of the school gate mums is beautiful. She has amazing cheekbones and looks like Audrey Hepburn. My DSIS' exbf was the most handsome man I have ever seen in RL. People would stop to stare at him.

Crimbobimbo · 11/12/2018 19:05

No one actually. Funny that.

Piggyhoolier · 11/12/2018 19:06

When I was about 14 I was on a train with my DM. We shared a table with 2 uni students who were the most beautiful men I’ve ever seen. One black the other white with blonde hair, blue eyes. They were unarguable perfection. After we got off DM and I just looked at each other and said something along the lines of phwoargh! So strange to have 2 men of such beauty side by side.

In the passing years I’ve seen fewer than 10 people of such knockout beauty. One of whom was Beyoncé. I do know lots of nice looking people but I think true unarguable beauty is rare.

DuggeesWooOOooggle · 11/12/2018 19:08

I don't think I would like to be that beautiful. I like being anonymous and not standing out. I wouldn't like to be gawped at all the time. But when you do see people like that you just can't help but look. I think because it is so rare.

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SongforSal · 11/12/2018 19:09

I work in an office with 2 retired models. Both stunning, one male one female. Both in their 20s. I actually nearly walked into a closed door when I first saw the man!

PaintBySticker · 11/12/2018 19:10

I remember many years ago sitting opposite a young man on the train who was beautiful. He was golden - his skin, hair and eyes all had a glow about them I’ve never seen before or since. I just stared at him on the journey (Marylebone to High Wycombe).

No one in my life now meets that standard of beauty.

Branleuse · 11/12/2018 19:11

Loads over the years

dun1urkin · 11/12/2018 19:11

I don’t know anyone now, but at 6th form there was a girl known as ‘the perfect woman’
She was really beautiful, extremely clever, utterly lovely and kind, funny and down to earth, and best of all she had a Saturday job in the local maccie d’s and would slip an extra burger in your takeaway bag. She went to do law at uni and that’s the last I heard of her.

CourtneyLoveIsMySpiritAnimall · 11/12/2018 19:12

Is RA gorgeous though? If I was looking at it dispassionately, I'd wouldn't say he's classically good looking.

It's only the characters he plays that make him handsome, imo. I don't think I'd look twice at him if I was passing him on the street (sorry, I know that's not what you asked).

I don't know of anyone who's outer beauty would floor me. But I know a few people who have that 'something' that just makes them magnetic, yet you wouldn't call them stunning (again, I know that's not not what you asked, sorry).

Racecardriver · 11/12/2018 19:14

I don’t know any stare with your mouth hanging in amazement as their beauty burns your eyes types but a lot of people I know are conventionally attractive and (if they’ve put a tiny bit of effort into the appearance) could easily pass for an actor (the kind that is only cast for their looks I mean) or a model or something. My husband and I for instance. Although he used to be very beautiful when he was younger but as he’s got older (and balder) he’s just become run of the mill attractive man pushing fourty. I have terrible skin but if I put on some make up to even it out I get stared at out and about. There is a boy I go to university with who is quite beautiful, looks a bit like a Greek statue iyswim so more a case of well proportioned than actually attractive. One of the mothers at school is gorgeous, a beautiful version of gweneth Paltrow, when her baby gets a bit older and she gets a bit more rest I imagine she will become stop and stare beautiful. There are a lot of other mothers at school as well who have average looking faced but work out a lot, West expensiveclithing, blow dry daily etc and they look like they’ve walked out of desperate housewives or something. My BIL could easily pass for an actor. He’s not anything special but flawless (whatched his weight well, excellent proportions, thick hair etc). I think the majority of people can pass for average beauty just by taking care of themselves and putting a little effort into how they dress/do their hair etc.

Amrapaali · 11/12/2018 19:14

We had a tiler many years ago doing our bathroom floors. He had longish hair, a perfectly toned body and a very Italian look. But his face- it was so classically beautiful I was just mesmerised. I couldn't speak when he was around: just stood there gawping like a fish.

And yes I have seen blaaake she is utterly bewitching. I THINK blaaake is a she Grin

FairytaleOfWigan · 11/12/2018 19:14

No one. Including the one professional model I know who is unusual looking and not at all classically beautiful and wasn’t especially pretty as a child.

DuggeesWooOOooggle · 11/12/2018 19:16

I know what you mean Courtney and I think I agree, as I have seen things with him in and obviously not noticed him until now when I saw North and South and became slack jawed with longing over Mr Thornton.

But it got me thinking about the beauty thing anyway as I just don't see people like that.

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OneStepMoreFun · 11/12/2018 19:16

These days, almost no one. Though I do have a friend with a fantastically handsome husband. Women cluster round him. They were round for dinner the other night and I found it hard to concentrate on what he was saying because my brain was just skipping about thinking: Bloody hell, those cheekbones! Those eyes! That perfect jawline and hairline! Every other woman I know thinks the same about him.

I worked for a while with a woman who was very pretty but also unbelievably charismatic. Everyone fell in love with her. Every man in the office was in lust with her and every woman loved her because she was funny and kind and outrageous.

MrsTerryPratcett · 11/12/2018 19:17

I used to know a model. She was gorgeous to look at but so selfish and vapid. Her sister was quirkier looking but far more attractive as a person.

I do work with an utterly stunning fire fighter. Poor poor me. Grin People comment a lot after he leaves the room. He's noticeably better looking than average. And in uniform which helps.

Athena51 · 11/12/2018 19:17

I think genuine beauty is very rare and the word is very overused. Often celebs are called beautiful when they are just pretty with good lighting and half a ton of makeup.

I used to work with a man who was jaw droppingly stunning and absolutely lovely to boot. Oddly I didn't find him sexually attractive as I prefer my men a it more quirky but he really was 'stop and stare' handsome.

ikltownofboothlehem · 11/12/2018 19:18

I know one very attractive man who is also a lovely person. Sort of 'stammer & blush' good looks. Dresses well. Amazing (platonic) hugger. Smile

MrsTerryPratcett · 11/12/2018 19:18

Oh and RA can't smile so he's got that!

OneStepMoreFun · 11/12/2018 19:19

The office where the gorgeous woman worked was run by a pair of gay male bosses and my God the men were handsome too. They hired men almost exclusively on looks. I came in one day to find I had been assigned a new temp assistant who looked like my favourite actor. And so many beautiful creatures just strolled around the office. It was a bit unreal for me as I was used to working with spotty teens.

ElsieCat · 11/12/2018 19:20

I can think of two women and one man. The man is my nephew.