Say here things you can't say in real life

[squirrelnutkins1]

Interested to hear things people really wish they could say in real life, but can't, for whatever reason.

This is a safe space..... let's offload!!

E the FB post you made about finally being divorced was the hight of bad taste. I don't know if you know but your ex died two weeks ago of the cancer he was suffering from when he left you.

You are indeed the person you revealed yourself to be: selfish, controlling and a bully. I hope I never have to speak to you again.

I can spell height!

I fucking hate work, I give most of my life to it, miss all of Christmas with my family ( although I don't think half of them really want me around) All the bosses ever do is moan at me, and make false promises of promotion.
They think the sunshines out of the arse of the bullies, who are so rubbish at what they do, but are so arrogant, and think they know it all. I end up clearing up after their mistakes but get no thanks or recognition for it.
My family have absolutely no understanding of what I do or how hard I work.
I've just had enough. I don't want to exist anymore, but I'm too pathetic and scared to do anything about it.

Although this thread has died off a bit I've got something to get off my chest that doesn't warrant a thread in its own right.

We are related, but you are new to this family, and don't share our history.

Don't think we can't see that you're pushing us out for reasons best known to you.

I'm not so much annoyed with you as with Relatives A and B who for nearly 20 years have criticised me and passed comment for a personal decision I made with justifiable cause.

And now when you do the same they not only defend you, but categorically join you in that decision, as if your declaration was a positive revelation compared to my so called stubbornness and immaturity.

You may have relegated us to the back benches of our own family, but we were here before you and we will be here after you.

Also, you're a bitchy, nasty gossip and we know you've slagged us off. HTH.

Also the way you've monopolised one family member is needy and weird as fuck

“ You’re an absolute shit friend! Stop messaging me to say you’ll do something and then not do it. Better to just not do anything at all (since I was expecting nothing anyway) and not promise it. It’s weird and fucking rude tbh. Stop being a dick. “

that felt good thanks

The reason your family didn’t get Christmas cards from us this year is because your precious son couldn’t be bothered to write them, not because my grandad died. Don’t put them blame on me/my grief, thanks!

Person who shall remain nameless: I hate so much that every single bloody time my family go through this you completely minimise it as if it's nothing. You have no idea what the process does to us, or the hurt and pain your words cause. I hope you are proud of yourself.

To ex friend:
Your drinking is out of control and your behaviour is atrocious. Stop lying about the amount you are drinking, it's obvious to everyone who knows you that you are in crisis. Stop ringing me at stupid o clock to tell me your b/f is being a cock, kicking him out then taking him back a few days later and acting like he is God's gift, even when he is constantly messaging me through the night sending vile abuse. I am no longer interested.

To ex friends b/f
You are so controlling you can't bear ex friend to have contact with someone you can't control.
Fuck off with your sad little threats because of something ex friend did is a joke. threatening to contact my work to tell them a pack of lies about me is laughable... you are mid-40s not 16 your knobhead.

Ahhhhhh that get better... merry Christmas everyone

The reason I haven't been to he doctors yet is because I'm scared, not because I can't be bothered. Stop going on about it, it won't make me less scared.

I got the Xmas card you sent with just your and your babys name on it. It was the 1st time you contacted me over 18 months. To say I was surprised was an understatement especially after how you treated me over the past few years.
I was good enough to be a fuck buddy but not good enough to be your girlfriend. You turned me down and you then went on to meet the mother of your child. I figured out that within 3 to 4 months of meeting you she was pregnant. Then a few months ago I saw your house for sale on a property website.
Are you contacting me because you feel bad for how you treated me in the past? Is it because you need a friend now due to any number of the bad life choices you made?
Do you think I am going to pick where we left off with me as your fuck buddy? Or do you think at this stage I am now good enough for a relationship with you? Or do you want to stay with me when you sell your house as it could take you time to find/buy another house.
I sent you a Xmas card and left a message on your phone before Xmas as I figure you could do with a friend now.

I have no intention of becoming your fuck buddy again. I am not willing to have a relationship with you. I am not willing to put my life on hold to bring up yours and another woman's child when you turned me in the past.
I am sorry if that sounds harsh but I have had a lot to deal with over the past few years and a few things to deal with next year.

I have no interest in maintaining a relationship with you and that's because I hate you, not because we've drifted apart.

FFS just say what is on your mind. I have told you about a thousand times that a "no" is better than nothing at all.

Hullo work colleague. I'm glad you've moved departments. You're moody, passive aggressive and a liar. These last few months have been exhausting. Im ready for a new term now I won't see your miserable face everyday! Happy New Year!

I've had enough. I honestly can't take any more bad news and things going wrong. I've gone beyond breaking point now.

Please stop turning every conversation I start about my job, or my health problems, straight around into about yours.... ever... fucking time .

And yeah, sometimes I do find you fucking boring.

Can I start the year off by saying Fuck off to a few people.

P, your response was despicable.

M, just fuck off out of my life. And everyone who believes you.

2019 I will either make it or take my hat and leave.

D & A - fuck off to the far side of fuck and then fuck off some more. You both are despicable human beings.

Only another 6 years to stay alive keep fighting depression and anxiety then i can end it.
Not that I'm arrogant enough to think I actually have a choice in the matter.

I know that in principle you were attempting a "nice thing" but if someone had casually asked me barring a terrible death or disaster, what way could you spend New Year's Eve that would be your idea of what hell might look like it would have been the last three hours

This year I am not pandering to anybody. I am not trying to waste time getting you to like me, I no longer care. I am not dumbing myself down anymore to make you feel better. This year I am going to fucking thrive and be the person I want to be, not the person that I am expected to be. I am not perfect but I am okay. But the empathetic days are over. It's now all about me. And I am fucking awesome.

I will probably cringe when I read this back tomorrow but I am tired of living small and pandering to others. Me time.

You've treated me with total disrespect and thrown years of loving friendship away.
I never, ever want to set eyes on you again.
And you're arrogant enough to say I caused it? I'd love to know what lies you told to explain yourself when you got back home as well.