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Say here things you can't say in real life

497 replies

squirrelnutkins1 · 10/12/2018 19:34

Interested to hear things people really wish they could say in real life, but can't, for whatever reason.

This is a safe space..... let's offload!!

OP posts:
DoubleNegativePanda · 21/12/2018 22:09

Ex-DH: You're an absolute scumbag with no redeeming qualities and you're lucky dd loves you in spite of it. I'll do a dance on the day she turns 18 and I never have reason to speak to or lay eyes on your greasy countenance again.

Zofloramummy · 21/12/2018 22:09

Ok here I go. You paid everything onto that house. You work your partner doesn’t. You ended things six months ago after a five year dead marriage. You are a kind sensitive soul and you are paying for a house where you sleep on a sofa. You are my friend but the time has come to be brave and make them leave. I can’t keep being supportive and saying nothing, but you are being a mug!

cadoth · 21/12/2018 22:12

Waiting for a message from you and dreading getting one at the same time , please leave my my heart ... my DH doesn't deserve this

littlecloudling · 21/12/2018 22:22

Are you ever going to have sex with me again?

TheNativityDonkey · 21/12/2018 22:27

Why are you such a fucking cunt? ...... to my SIL

Didsomeonesaybunny · 21/12/2018 22:27

To the father of my child,

I’ll love you until you the day you draw your last breath although I’m really not sure why. I’ll never understand how you could leave me for the OW after everything you said about her, the DC and her family. Perhaps she isn’t as bad as you’d have me to believe, maybe it was you and your impossible standards?I don’t understand why you now want to be a part of our lives after everything you’ve done? Don’t you see that if the last woman wasn’t good enough then maybe it’s you with the problem?

You profess to love our child but it’s only because I’ve found happiness with someone else. He will be our child’s father because you have shown a complete disregard for her. You say you are torn up inside when we FaceTime you because she’s the image of you but your actions are not commensurate with your empty words.

To my DP,

You know I still love my ex and you live with it in the hope that someday I will love you just as much. You adore Ruby as you love your other two biological children and you are desperate to be her father and have a family. You love me deeply and have made great sacrifices and I will never forget it. I love you very much xx

Shootingstar20 · 21/12/2018 22:31

Dear girls at previous workplace which I happily walked out of. You’re a bunch of bullying, uptight, spiteful and nasty bunch of pricks, I hope your manager gets caught scamming MAJOR profits from the government illegally and I hope you all get caught for forging signatures of landlords and customers, I wish you the shittest future of no career gain. I also hope that your poor kids that were conceived by one night stands and low life benefit claiming boyfriends grow up and realise what an absolute twat you are. Can’t believe I wasted a month of my life sat with you people for 5 days a week.

Shootingstar20 · 21/12/2018 22:40

Oh and I can not fucking stand my SILs kids, spoilt, rude and bloody irritating little shits.

FuzzyShadowChatter · 21/12/2018 22:50

I'm only still friend-ish with you because my best friend is such a nice person she won't call out her childhood friends on their shite and she has little social time with little kids that we're always hanging out together. The fact you've asking your mostly women friends, many who are a lot smaller in the chest than you, to help fund your boob job because you feel your chest is 'childish' for a thirtysomething is a bit of a slap in the face, especially when you don't seem to think it's childish to still be getting most of your expenses paid by your mum. Cosmetic surgery isn't going to make you happy or 'reduce your anxiety' or make you look or seem more adult or womanly, and constantly asking for money for this or other 'solutions' while you also push your friends to spend a bunch regularly and change plans to make it easier for you with little regard for others is going to leave you lonely when your fad falls out of fashion and everyone is too tired to keep up with your games.

mumof3dds · 21/12/2018 22:55

Your sycophant enablers supporters are almost as bad as you. I am sure you've had some challenges but it's clear you are now hugely exaggerating and it's not difficult to prove that. Your attention seeking and delusion is off the scale. I hope you get some help.

And supporters you aren't helping anyone. Stop the stop games and come back to reality.

Dionysus78 · 21/12/2018 23:11

Dear parents of my child's absent father from a very brief relationship. I know you think it might ruin your reputation to acknowledge a grandchild out of wedlock. But she is the most amazing thing in the world, you are missing out massively, and I hope you break your hearts about it on your deathbeds.

sizzledrizz · 21/12/2018 23:14

I like you. I'm tempted. But you're 18 years younger than me
I'm struggling with it.

Ilady · 21/12/2018 23:44

R, the last time I spoke to you I don't know why you had to lie to me about W. I know you lied to me about the Xmas card, why be that nasty? What you said about w baby may be true but dont expect me to agree with you. I know he is going through a bad patch and he could do with a few friends. He does not need you stirring things. I just contacted you for information and then you tell me a pile of lies. Your not as smart as you think because I know what you did in the past. I am just using you now until I get what I want.

sizzledrizz · 22/12/2018 00:05

You're an utter utter vile fucking shit
Today our dd told me that no matter how hard she tries to be happy, she feels sad all the time because "daddy won't see me"
How dare you break her precious heart. You've done a lot of disgusting things, but this is the lowest I have ever seen. She is beautiful, lovely, spreads joy, always makes every one smile, and all the time her heart is constantly in pain because of you. You utter fucking shit

Ilady · 22/12/2018 00:54

A, thanks for letting me down. I know that the plans I made for us to do things in the next few weeks won't happen. I am sick of the excuses and being let down. What happened over the past few days is your wake up call that things have to change.
I have seen your life get worse instead of better over the past 12 months. We both know what you need to do. Until you do this nothing is going to change.

He does nothing to help you out. He is making the whole household unhappy with what he says. The kids have no time for him as they realise he does nothing with them unlike their fathers friends. He treats you like a slave. What he said to you recently was the meanest thing ever. We both know what you have had to deal with over the past few years. Rather then helping you he is causing you more stress and unhappiness. You have given him time to make changes but he just ignores what you say.
It time you told him to move out.

PointlessPigeon · 22/12/2018 00:58

Shove your arbonne up your arse

themailfail · 22/12/2018 01:00

I love you

Ultraista · 22/12/2018 01:18

I sometimes feel sorry for my son that I'm his Mum. He is loved and well looked after but I have a poor sense of self at times and feel relieved that his Dad isn't like that.
@MrsGrindah- I don't know if this will notify you as I rarely post but I understand. The lack of support from people I considered good friends when I was grieving added to the pain.

EllaDownTheLane · 22/12/2018 01:21

I’m so mad that you died, that you left me, that you gave up.

MothertotheLordsofmisrule · 22/12/2018 01:37

DS1 - stop pissing your future up the wall. I believe you can achieve brill GCSE results.
I believe you can do anything you put your mind to.
I’ve believed in you for last 16 yrs, just do the same for the next year.

blooddiamond · 22/12/2018 02:12

You damaged me so badly as a child my self worth is shattered to the point where I can never recover and I have to pretend everything's okay to that you do don't feel guilt for what you did.

Notmissmoneypenny · 22/12/2018 02:27

MIL your grandson is my child you might not like it but it’s true. Yes, I have noticed that you have taken zero photos of me and my DS together and yet you fall over yourself to take photos of my DS with my SIL at any given opportunity. Yes I know she is your daughter but she is not and will never be my DS mother. I’m sorry you wish he was her baby but he’s not.

AGnu · 22/12/2018 02:57

I don't hope you had a lovely evening at all. I hope you all got drunk, fell over, made fools of yourselves & have terrible hangovers in the morning.

On a completely unrelated note... What's so awful about me that even the people I'm closest to don't invite me when they go out?! Why is it that people seem happy enough to meet up when I organise things but literally no-one invites me on fun evenings out. What do I do wrong?!

9thCircleInHell · 22/12/2018 04:12

I fantasise about you crashing your car and dying every night on your way home from work.

I daydream about winning the lottery and ways that I can hide the money so you don't get a fucking penny.

The kids and I would be better off without you.

I made a mistake taking you back, I was afraid, now I just try and get through each day faking happiness for them.

You are a disgusting cheating piece of shit and you deserve no joy.

PinkAvocado · 22/12/2018 04:27

Stop using ‘gift’ as a verb and ‘make’ as a noun.

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