Say here things you can't say in real life

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Interested to hear things people really wish they could say in real life, but can't, for whatever reason.

This is a safe space..... let's offload!!

Your child isn't trans, she's autistic. She doesn't feel like she fits in with other girls because she likes mechanics, maths and computers. She also can't make eye contact and speaks in a monotone. This doesn't make her a boy trapped in a girl's body, she's blindingly obviously autistic, and you're neglecting her by going with the trendy, fixable option of being trans.

I am sick of your sob story, you're like a wet blanket.

I hate you, I hate how you make me feel (dirty). I hate that you try to make your sexual lust my fault. I hate that you have ruined family events for me, for the last 17 years. I hate that you are an obnoxious, misogynistic, alcoholic git. I hate that my parents didn’t act like grown ups when I told them what you did when I was 15. And I hate that I’ve ‘kept the peace’ for fucking years when I never want to see you again.

And I don’t understand why after all these years, after all the times I’ve told you I hate you and that you repulse me. Why do you keep on insisting that we have a ‘special’relationship and somehow if you keep on telling me that you love me you will force your imaginary world to be real!

stop changing the goal posts. Telling me I can do something n then I can’t!!!!! It’s not on. Worse still is the other party can do as they like but I need to sit down shut up n be a good little girl 😡😡😡

Stop asking me questions every five minutes!! Just email me like my other normal colleagues!!!

You’ve destroyed it and there’s no way back.

To my two adult sons

Stop taking my things. And stop lying when I ask if you’ve taken whatever it is that I’m missing.

You drink way too much coffee. You do get enough sleep, you don't need it. It makes you talk too much and it's like you're on drugs.

Our parents won't be around forever. You'll regret the way you treat them.

Neighbour - I think you're an alcoholic. Please get help.

R - it was never the right time for us. But I wish it had been.

N - I still think of it. I wish you hadn't gone that way.

"...too much coffee..." - not sure I understand this concept.

You are a fucking disgrace to the teaching profession. You sit in the staff room going on about how much you hate the kids you teach. Shame on you.

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It's not a competition to see who is going to have the most shitty Christmas. Just make it nice for your kids. You'll get through it, and if it gets too much, have a quiet sob in the bathroom.
I think I'm falling down the rabbit hole again. Just need to stop thinking

With the weight of all that guilt resting on your shoulders you must feel about 3ft tall by now. I salute you though, good effort on damage limitation hmm apparently not good enough I hear. Keep scraping the bottom of that barrel.

I hope those waves of dread and panic (the ones that sweep over you every now and then when you think about what you've done) don't keep you awake too much at night.

Merry Christmas - have fun with all those people who love you around your table.

I dont want to go to work. I feel like im being bullied and I dont know what I am supposed to do. They are invincible. I need to get out.

I love you.
I love you like I’ve never loved anyone...but if you smack your brother in the face one more time today I swear to god I’m going to lose my shit spectacularly

Get your fucking octopus hands out of my motherfucking bra when I'm trying to get the kids ready for school

Yes it is cold out. That's because it's fecking December in the Northern Hemisphere. It is not bloody news and you don't need to tell me everytime you step outside. Other than that, you're a fab house guest!

I know I know you but I can’t for the life of me remember how.

Dear ex friend. I don't know why you decided to ignore my texts, I guess you don't want us to be friends any more. I was worried, but since I have heard you are fine and just "busy" I realise that we weren't really that close anyway. Really, you've done me a favour.

F*ck off I have anxiety, when I don't want to do anything apart from hide in my safe place don't give me "it would be nice if" crap I don't like going out!!!

And in the same vein..
Just because we’ve caught each other’s eye do we HAVE to stop and have a conversation? I can’t think of anything to say to you and I bet you feel the same.

it’s been a bad three year run, I feel like such a loser. Friends and family you have been amazing, but I think about how to kill myself every day. I hope it will pass. Work, you have treated me appallingly, you were only ever a stop gap, so I genuinely don’t care, but I will do my best to hide it while I find a new job.

Dear depressed friend
I'm tired of having to reassure you that every little thing is all right, that every offer is genuine and not some sort of pity party. I know it's the depression talking. But I am tired.

Thank you mumsnet for giving me the strength & courage to leave my abusive controlling bully of a husband.
Husband i dont miss you, im so much happier without you it surprises me - also you are a knobhead