Just asked DH to get a vasectomy

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Here's to hoping he goes and gets one! His main concern is lasting pain long after the op(although I pointed out how I have had episiotomies and c sections and they had slight pain ) , any horror stories or is it mostly ok?
I'm hoping to rejuvenate our sex life somewhat also, after years of being on the blasted pill.

I don't like this idea of men should be strong etc.

Oh, but women are told to 'get a coil', which has many have experienced is painful and can have very damaging side effects or risks including death.

And yes those risks are the minority, but so are the risks of vasectomy.

My Dp said 'have you thought about a coil'

I said yes, but have decided that's not an option for me. So I'll leave the ball in your court.