Hand hold pls - think I'm watching my mother die

[RogerAllamsFangirl]

Sitting in a side room on a hospital ward. She's struggling to breathe and clammy and cold. I was here earlier and went home but the nurse rang me to tell me to come over.

Tbh, watching her like this, I think that death, when it comes, will come as a friend.

Sending you a handhold & a hug, OP.

Thinking of you, @RogerAllamsFangirl , and your lovely mother

So much love to you and your mum 💖

Thanks all. Mum passed at about 3 this morning. I was with her all the time. It was peaceful in the end. Now for a horrible day of telling people and working out what next.

Oh im so sorry 💕

I am so sorry to hear that OP. Sending love and strength to you.

I'm sorry lass. May she rest in peace.

Wishing you love and strength x

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💐 so sorry for your loss OP

Sorry for your loss. I was there with my Dad when it was his turn. I'm just grateful for a quick decline without the horrible slow drawn out pain.
She is a peace now.

On a practical note I hope you have some friends to help you with ordinary things or just to be there.
Also order at least 6 death certificates because you will need them for various bodies and institutions such as banks where she is still officially alive.

You have just done the kindest thing anybody can do for another person.
So sorry for your loss

So sorry for your loss.

It is the longest sit.

for you. You did the kindest and most loving thing for her by being there. Can you delegate sharing the news? Don't rush. Take your time. You now are the one who needs looking after. Be kind to yourself.

So sorry

Sending you love and strength 💕

Sorry to hear this op. I don't see why humans have to see it out to the last breath.
I had to do the same recently, it beggars belief we do this to ourselves. My relative had two weeks of that.
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I’m so sorry for your loss, but take comfort that your Mum passed peacefully with you next to her
On a practical note, for next steps do get a recommendation for a good funeral director. Ours was utterly professional and invaluable with giving us guidance on all the practical aspects.
Stay strong and good luck as you get through the next few days and weeksx

So sorry for your loss, will be thinking of you. Hope you have people looking after you too now x x

I'm so very sorry, rest in peace lovely lady. 🌹
Please remember to be kind to yourself, sending love and strength.