debt and thoughts of suicide

[joee123]

I am a single mum with a ten year old.i am drowning in debt and santander are taking me to court on the 5th november for repossession.the council and debts agencies are pushingme from pillar to post.my daughter goes away on sunday for 1 week.i feel quite calm now as im planning to take my life.i know she will be looked after.i dont even know why im here.im jyst desperate i suppose

I know i know ! Lets hope good wishes and common sense win over santander! Go the small man/woman xxx

Santander is notorious for really bad customer service. (Google Santander Poor Service.) So even if it does go to court the odds are that the judge will have seen loads of people in the same situation as you thanks to Santander.

That is really encouraging news joee, you are really inspirational, i know how much it can drain you fighting with these fuckers all the time, but i tell you, it does make you stronger, i do not take any shit for anyone nowadays because i know my rights and i know that people can't just walk all over you.

So pleased the big guns are standing by you - this is brilliant!!!

Wipe the floor with Santander bastards - you will be stood there with practical help by your side and the mumsnet possy there with you in spirit xx

just want to say, i wish you well joee - please dont ever ever think that your dd would be better off without you there - she wont be.

there is always another way.

its bricks and mortor vs having a mum, and there is no contest - dont let hte bastards grind you down.

i hope it all goes well. dont rob your dd of her mum. its not bloody worth it. ever.

Fingers crossed everyone.will post tomorrow with updates xxx

All quiet on the santander front today.being taken out for a meal by a couple of local Mums :-) xxx

Enjoy yourself :)

Really nice meal and company.Feel very blessed with the support :-) xxx

You okay Defragged? Missed you xxx

Hi. I haven't read this whole post so not sure if this is still relevant but I would recommend contacting this organization www.capuk.org. They treat you as a person, not a 'client'. Hth x

Thankyou annamaria xxx

I'm glad you are doing ok. Keep updating, I know I'm still looking in on the thread for good news!

Hi Joee yes I'm fine ta! Just a busy couple of days - half term hecticness, a rare night out and loads of t'internet shopping!

Glad to see you're doing ok and lots of support for you still.

When does dd come back? Is she enjoying her time away?

Almost can't take it in, still reeling.Santander have agreed to mortgage rescue :-) after huge fight and effort.May not even have to go to court, adjouned for 2 months for mortgage rescue to take place.Will catch up with everyone when i ve picked myself up from the shock.thankyou thankyou thankyou xxx

Oh wow, thats great Joee. Really pleased for you. Fab news.

That's wonderful news op. Very glad for you. Good things do happen. X

oh joee that is great news! im so pleased for you. please dont ever ever think thoughts of self harm again though eh? please. i have seen the damage that is done to people when a parent kills themselves - its not nice and i attend suicides, its absolutely terrible for those left - there is always another way.

Have just read the whole thread....am so pleased for you Joee that Santander have agreed!

What a massive relief for you!

Fantastic news Joee - so pleased for you
Can you def please get rid of those pills now, for proper?

Oh,absolutely wonderful!
Congratulations!
Well done for all that hard work and effort.

So pleased, mumsnet rocks

What Defragged said - so pleased but never think of harming yourself again
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That's absolutely brilliant news Joee! The start of better times! You didn't let the buggers get you down xx well done you xx

Oh thats fab! xx

only just seen this, this is fantastic news, so very pleased for you and your DD.

Well done - you have done yourself, and your DD proud. I'm awed xxxxx