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I'm a single mum of 7. AMA!

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WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 13:29

Scared 😅

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Tinahowls · 25/07/2026 13:56

WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 13:54

It is a lot, but it won't be forever and it's very scary because I don't want to rely on a man/husband ever. But I suppose that's why I'm doing a Law degree, to better our lives

To be a lawyer? One of the most vulnerable professions to AI?

WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 13:56

Tinahowls · 25/07/2026 13:55

What’s your highest level of education?

I have good GCSEs and A Levels, and I'm in the final year of my LLB

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Tinahowls · 25/07/2026 13:56

WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 13:56

I have good GCSEs and A Levels, and I'm in the final year of my LLB

Do you have a training contract set up?

WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 13:56

Tinahowls · 25/07/2026 13:56

To be a lawyer? One of the most vulnerable professions to AI?

The plan originally was to work in family law yes, but things are advancing quickly with AI so I'll have to wait and see

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summerrevival · 25/07/2026 13:57

How do you plan on paying for and studying for the SQE?

Bananacrepewithnuts · 25/07/2026 13:57

So 4k per month lands in your account.
How much goes out for your rent?

1100 from dads
1000 from your job (approx)

Wow. I'm doing something wrong ?

  • you wouldn't have come on here if you weren't expecting this one.
WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 13:57

Tinahowls · 25/07/2026 13:56

Do you have a training contract set up?

It's SQE now, but no, I haven't applied for anything as I'm on mat leave and I actually really like the job I'm in!

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summerrevival · 25/07/2026 13:58

WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 13:57

It's SQE now, but no, I haven't applied for anything as I'm on mat leave and I actually really like the job I'm in!

You do realise you still need some form of legal experience?

notatinydancer · 25/07/2026 13:58

summerrevival · 25/07/2026 13:43

Why did you continue having children when you can’t support them? Why should I as a taxpayer support your children?

Yes. To the tune of £4k a month @WorldCupSadness?

CariadDarling · 25/07/2026 13:59

Flazzled · 25/07/2026 13:49

Do you think people judge you?

If the didn’t up to now the replies on this thread will change that.

WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 13:59

Bananacrepewithnuts · 25/07/2026 13:57

So 4k per month lands in your account.
How much goes out for your rent?

1100 from dads
1000 from your job (approx)

Wow. I'm doing something wrong ?

  • you wouldn't have come on here if you weren't expecting this one.

Child maintenance can disappear in an instant (and it has many times, as clearly I married idiots!). Rent is 1350

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Whattheduck · 25/07/2026 13:59

Do you own your house or is it rented privately or a council property ?
How many bedrooms does it have ?

Tinahowls · 25/07/2026 13:59

WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 13:57

It's SQE now, but no, I haven't applied for anything as I'm on mat leave and I actually really like the job I'm in!

So you have a job
7 children
a newborn
and you are studying for an LLB

Correct?

WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 13:59

CariadDarling · 25/07/2026 13:59

If the didn’t up to now the replies on this thread will change that.

That's a shame and not my intention

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WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 14:00

Tinahowls · 25/07/2026 13:59

So you have a job
7 children
a newborn
and you are studying for an LLB

Correct?

Correct

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Tinahowls · 25/07/2026 14:00

When was the last time you went abroad?

WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 14:00

Whattheduck · 25/07/2026 13:59

Do you own your house or is it rented privately or a council property ?
How many bedrooms does it have ?

4 bed privately rented

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WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 14:00

Tinahowls · 25/07/2026 14:00

When was the last time you went abroad?

  1. Luckily my children love caravan holidays 🤣
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WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 14:01

summerrevival · 25/07/2026 13:58

You do realise you still need some form of legal experience?

Obviously...

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Whosthetabbynow · 25/07/2026 14:01

Ex friend had 6 kids. Eldest was fairly bright. Selective school wouldn’t accept her as they stated where would she have space and peace to study at home. It’s the knock-on effect on the older kids.

WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 14:02

summerrevival · 25/07/2026 13:57

How do you plan on paying for and studying for the SQE?

I'm not 100% sure I'm going to go for it yet , but I'd use my savings

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VanessaWilliams1 · 25/07/2026 14:02

there was a lady in my grandmothers church who was a single mother with 7 kids.

hisband made good money, religious and her and her husband had 3 kids. Were planning to be done after 4. Fourth kid turned out to be triplets so they ended up 7. Then her husband became disabled and then died, they lost money and she ended up struggling single mom

WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 14:02

Whosthetabbynow · 25/07/2026 14:01

Ex friend had 6 kids. Eldest was fairly bright. Selective school wouldn’t accept her as they stated where would she have space and peace to study at home. It’s the knock-on effect on the older kids.

That's really sad. My eldest is going to uni in September x

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Tinahowls · 25/07/2026 14:02

WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 14:00

Correct

Sounds like an Mike Leigh TV drama

Tinahowls · 25/07/2026 14:03

WorldCupSadness · 25/07/2026 14:02

I'm not 100% sure I'm going to go for it yet , but I'd use my savings

Your savings will be below £6k so that won’t get you far

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