I'm a single mum of 7. AMA!

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Scared 😅

Do you think people judge you?

How much child benifit to you rake in.

They're all sooo different! It's crazy really. I do get quality time with them, even more so now I'm on mat leave.

My eldest has his paternal grandad, but that's all unfortunately!

Well , you clearly need them for something as you've had kids with 4 different men in 15 years 🤔🤔🤔

I am childfree OP, AMA 😆

Op answered the universal credit and CMS questions, I don't think child benefit is too much is it after the first child?? Not sure though. I'm guessing the 4k UC contains the childcare element??

Yep. People can't help themselves. But they probably wouldn't manage a day in my shoes!

Were any cesereans? If so, how many c-sections have you had?

Why are you finding it hilarious that taxpayers are subsidising you and the deadbeat dads with £4 k a month or are you just being goady?

Yes it contains childcare too x

Hilarious?

No.

3x planned home births, 3x inductions and a spontaneous vaginal birth in hospital

Me too.

I just saw a lady on YouTube single mom of 10 kids

That must be bliss 😂😂❤️

And this is why people get pissed off. You can't afford 7 kids so why did you have so many? Was it because you knew the state would pay for them?

Op solved the low birth rate crisis

It is a lot, but it won't be forever and it's very scary because I don't want to rely on a man/husband ever. But I suppose that's why I'm doing a Law degree, to better our lives

🤣🤣🤣

I wouldn't manage it op. I know financially you get supported by UC, CMS etc. But just emotionally and physically I couldn't do it. Sound like a wimp but I struggle with one child sometimes 😂😭 you must be very organised to keep the house and everything running. I think I'd need a cleaner, Gardner, nanny, ironer and everything to cope!! Do you pay for any help like cleaners etc or do it all yourself?

No, I was married twice.

You have £4k in benefits, £1100 in CMS and just over £1000 in salary every month, how good at budgeting would you need to be with a net income of over £6k a month?

I’m not understanding why having 7 kids is funny. It must take a terrible mental toll on everyone concerned.

What’s your highest level of education?

I've just hired a cleaner! Although I feel like as soon as she leaves there are crumbs on the side or paw prints on the floor 😂