I'm a single mum of 7. AMA!

[WorldCupSadness]

Scared 😅

Why did you have another when you’re supposedly studying?

Do you actually plan to sit these exams?

Are you from a big family yourself? Do your parents/siblings help with childcare?

We have more than that and still need to budget, only 2 dc.

I'd maybe force myself to go back to the gym, then ruin my efforts by getting cake. I'd get my hair and nails done. Knowing me I'd end up studying - I even did on Christmas Day! Then I'd have a curry and a bath, and watch murder documentaries. Then I'd probably fall asleep while scrolling Vinted!

Jesus wept

People have to earn around £60k a year to bring in £4k a month

No wonder people are resentful of benefit claimants. I know you work too but not many people can earn enough to independently support 7 kids.

And still find time to date?

Thank you

When was the last time you went abroad?

I know.

Not any more 🤣

Answered that already

And a cat or dog (unless by paw prints she meant one of her children has paws).

I'm very lucky

What sex are they all?

How old were you when you had the first?

This is the same conversation though - I pay tax. My Polish neighbour also goes on about 'paying tax' when he is clearly a nett beneficiary, not a nett contributor - after NHS, state schools, council housing, child benefit, tax credits. People who are a drain keep saying 'I pay taxes'.

However, if this is not a goady but a genuine post, I do think we as taxpayers should foot the bill for this lady having 7 children because we ourselves are under-reproduce, hence the dwindling native population and the need to rely on incomers. I have no problem if my taxes to go the upkeep of these children, genuinely.

Boy, girl, girl, girl, girl, girl, boy!

I had just turned 19.

So you can afford a cleaner because the rest of us are subsidising your lifestyle with £4k per month.

You’re also only on £14k per year which means you don’t even work full time

Why do you think this is ok?

Can you understand why others resent this?

£6k a month when you consider maintenance and her paltry earnings.

I work 40 hours a week and she gets just under four times what I do in a month!

Ou don’t want to ever rely on a man or husband but happily rely on the tax payer?!!

I have to say getting £4k a month of benefits makes me sick

Thank you x

Your eldest is a boy (17yo) from what I've read and you fled DV.
Is he very protective of you ?

I don’t know much about the training but I do work with benefits and just couldn’t resist to reply about the savings part lol.

As others have said, wondering if there are a few tall tales in this thread tbh.

I work 21 hours.

Why do I think this is okay? I can't send the kids back...

But services like NHS are drowning because there are so many people. There’s a housing crisis. Having all these kids is contributing to the stress on the community

I don't lie... I'm terrible at it 🤣