I am submissive to my husband AMA

[Peachesx2606]

Please AMA but please be kind.

I'm interested in other thoughts/opinions and will try to give mine.

This is just something that seems to work for us x

Fair enough, but also fair enough for me to make the point.

No, I don't feel inferior. But I feel a need to be looked after.

Why do you think that your husband’s wants and desires are more important than your own? You deserve better than this

If you can’t talk about it in real life then it sounds more like an abusive relationship rather than submissive.

Are you in a coercive relationship?

So he told you to post on here. Or these are posts by some sick partner?

I agree with this. If it’s something that needs to be hidden, it’s not a healthy relationship.

I'm 39 and he's 45

What if he dies - how will you cope?

When did you get married? Earlier or later in life?

I don't really know what that is but no, we don't follow any tradition, just what we decided ourselves. Neither of us think other couples should do the same. Just whatever works in your relationship.

I would speak up

How long have you been in the relationship and is there any children?

Also how did the relationship develop into you accepting to be submissive? Is that something you actively sought or something that was encouraged by him?

I am ok with that. To be honest, I am quite timid. But I want to answer questions and discuss.

That’s rather feeble, isn’t it?

I think my biggest question is simply why?

Do you have free access to money, and do you ask permission from him before buying something you like?

I don't know. Maybe you will understand that sometimes a relationship that is not the way we think things should be these days can work for some couples.

Sorry OP but I'm not interested in asking you about it, other than to say I hope you're OK.
I'm not only "sometimes" happy with my DP and I don't feel "unusual". I can also talk openly about my relationship with my friends etc because, I think unlike you, I'm not ashamed of it.

So no interest in the AMA but wishing you well

I am happy to be asked anything. But not to be insulted for being different for example

Why? Do you have children?

What decisions does he make? Literally everything?

Does he decide:

1. Where to go on holiday
2. What colour to paint the living room
3. What to name the puppy
4. What to have for tea
5. What outfit you put on in the morning

Do you find it freeing not to have the responsibility of making your own decisions?

I can understand why some people would like this choice.

My mother (very unofficially and unspoken) prefers other people make her decisions for her.

Another question - what do you have control of? Anything? What you eat / buy / wear / where you go?

What was a day in your life like before and after you decided to become a submissive? What are the differences?