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AMA

AMA I do online kink/domination work

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Cassie242 · 30/06/2023 16:39

I was posting on another thread and got suggestions to do an AMA from other posters, so I obliged!
Basic info .. I started roughly 6 years ago selling worn items, tights, knickers etc, and now primarily for the past few years I do online domination, mainly financial domination, orgasm control/denial with chastity etc, however still sell items but my main area is now online dom.

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Eyesopenwideawake · 30/06/2023 16:41

That's interesting. What does a 'typical' day look like?

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overthinkersanonnymus · 30/06/2023 16:41

How much do you earn a year?

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Terryer · 30/06/2023 16:42

What's financial domination?

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speluncean · 30/06/2023 16:43

How are you a Domme when you're getting paid for it?

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FuckoffeeBeforeCoffee · 30/06/2023 16:48

I just want to know how much you earn and how I can sell my knickers.

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Danikm151 · 30/06/2023 16:51

How did you start out?

was it via kink forums etc?

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Mummapenguin20 · 30/06/2023 16:51

How much do you earn a day

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warblingwater · 30/06/2023 17:23

Do you do it anonymously? Or hVe they seen your face?

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7catsisnotenough · 30/06/2023 17:26

Hi @Cassie242 , thanks for doing the AMA, it was me that asked you on your other thread.

Were you in the scene prior to this?

How did you make the decision to build a business on the scene?

Sorry, I'm just fascinated!

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doingthehokeykokey · 30/06/2023 17:27

Has it impacted your offline life?

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NeedleFeltedFox · 30/06/2023 17:28

How much do you make from selling stuff? It can’t be much if you’ve had to branch out into harder stuff!

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Robinbuildsbears · 30/06/2023 17:31

What's your relationship with your parents like?

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Cassie242 · 30/06/2023 17:31

Eyesopenwideawake · 30/06/2023 16:41

That's interesting. What does a 'typical' day look like?

First thing is logging onto emails, checking messages on the site. Checking in with subs. Mostly I basically do what I want, whether that's go out or potter around the house. I try to get admin out of the way in the morning. Other days I'll be making content or having online sessions, it depends on a particular day and I try to work around it.

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Cassie242 · 30/06/2023 17:34

overthinkersanonnymus · 30/06/2023 16:41

How much do you earn a year?

The first few years I was still working a day job, its only the last I'd say 2 years Ive been making enough to do this full time. On average making 5k per month, it can be higher or a little lower. That's not including items bought for me from my wishlists.

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Cassie242 · 30/06/2023 17:37

Terryer · 30/06/2023 16:42

What's financial domination?

It's when the male submissive gets off on paying a woman, basically a power exchange. Their kink is being financially dominated rather than dominated with whips etc in a dungeon type situation.

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Cassie242 · 30/06/2023 17:41

speluncean · 30/06/2023 16:43

How are you a Domme when you're getting paid for it?

Not sure I understand fully, if you're a Mistress or Domme in this field you get paid for your time.

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eandz13 · 30/06/2023 17:44

I have friends that do this and I have done similar! Really fun.

What has been your strangest request?

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Cassie242 · 30/06/2023 17:45

FuckoffeeBeforeCoffee · 30/06/2023 16:48

I just want to know how much you earn and how I can sell my knickers.

There are a number of sites where you can sell knickers, and all sorts really, socks, tights etc. Im not talking ebay but sites dedicated to selling worn items. That's how I got started, on these sites. I dont think I can advertise them here but would suggest google searching.

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FuckoffeeBeforeCoffee · 30/06/2023 17:46

Would you mind PMing me one or two, please? Just so I know they're legit ones.

Do your friends/family know what you do?

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Cassie242 · 30/06/2023 17:47

Danikm151 · 30/06/2023 16:51

How did you start out?

was it via kink forums etc?

A friend actually mentioned it as she was considering it, I did some research and found a site dedicated to selling worn items.

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speluncean · 30/06/2023 17:47

@Cassie242 he who pays the piper calls the tune and all that.

You're not adorned if you're getting paid for it, surely?

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speluncean · 30/06/2023 17:48

*a domme

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OhForFucksFuckingSake · 30/06/2023 17:49

Do you genuinely wear the knickers before you send them? And are they fancy lacy numbers or just Primark multi-pack jobs?

How much of your time does it take up? I could probably be bothered to bung some kecks in the post but I'm not sure I'd have the patience to fart arse around online telling men when they're allowed to cum. You must have to be into that whole scene already otherwise wouldn't it just be boring?

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Cassie242 · 30/06/2023 17:50

Mummapenguin20 · 30/06/2023 16:51

How much do you earn a day

It varies, some days are insane, others are quieter.

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RoseslnTheHospital · 30/06/2023 17:51

Do they see your face, and would you be worried about being recognised or recognising a buyer?

The sexual domination, how much do your buyers expect from you, or do you choose how much sexual content you perform?

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