I used to be a sex worker, ask me anything

[FeminismIsForALLWomen]

For 12 years I worked as an escort, I also did occasional phone & cam work. I varied between working full time and part time, but around half was full time and the other half part time.

I've been put off doing one of these because of how they usually go but I'm always banging on about people making assumptions about sex workers and accepting stereotypes about us so I might as well.

To be clear, this is a thread for people who want to ask questions, not for people who just want to make a point about sex work or sex workers.

Anyway, if anybody cares...ask away

[Heffalooomia]

I think this is hugely complex area and there is no perfect solution, I support the OPs right to do this work but I also understand why others find it problematic
So yeah I'm conflicted!

[ChildOfTheNineties]

I gave up the fags when I got pregnant but still get the craving for a smoke when I've had a few shandies.

[FeminismIsForALLWomen]

What’s your best sex tip ?

I'll assume you're asking about men, don't ignore the balls and learn how to massage the anus.

Have you learnt many tricks / shortcuts

Finger up the bum, never fails

Do they care if you orgasm or not is that part of the experience for them ?

I was a gfe escort, which means girlfriend experience. Men who book this want a more vanilla 'genuine' experience and as such they care about the escort also having pleasure, which I used to fake.


Do you specialise in a particular area such as dominatrix ?

I did a couple of domme services such as strap on but only as part of a gfe booking, I was just a common prossie really.

[Heffalooomia]

@ChildOfTheNineties

I gave up the fags when I got pregnant but still get the craving for a smoke when I've had a few shandies.

It's weird isn't it, I've never enjoyed the effects of nicotine but I do love the smell of someone smoking a cigarette outdoors 😊

[feministfemme]

@DeezNuts420 Just stop. Homophobia isn't cute.

[cabinbythelake20]

What was your upbringing like? Were you close to your family and were you pushed in your education growing up?
Thank you for answering so many questions!

[feministfemme]

Brilliant! Write about it in a personal diary in that case.

[FeminismIsForALLWomen]

I gave up the fags when I got pregnant but still get the craving for a smoke when I've had a few shandies.

Oooh me too but I've firmly given them up, contrary to stereotype 😭

[Heffalooomia]

Oh I've got one one😊☝️
have you decided at what age you will retire 🤔

[feministfemme]

Well done yous for giving them up! @Heffalooomia @FeminismIsForALLWomen

[cabinbythelake20]

Some immature people are ruining this thread..reported

Op - see my question below!

[FeminismIsForALLWomen]

What was your upbringing like? Were you close to your family and were you pushed in your education growing up?

Pretty normal, I think. I wasn't pushed in my education but I do have a degree that I've never used (like a lot of people).

[feministfemme]

@cabinbythelake20

Some immature people are ruining this thread..reported

Op - see my question below!

MN seem to be having a nap I'm afraid ...

[feministfemme]

@FeminismIsForALLWomen Do you think you'd still have got a degree if you knew you could pursue a living in sex work? Or did you get a degree as an extra asset?

[TheSpottedZebra]

When you say you used hotels, how did that work - did you book the night and see one, or more than one client? Were the hotel staff aware/bothered ?

[cabinbythelake20]

@femme yes seems to be the case!
I imagine its an immature teen hiding behind the screen.. needs to grow up!