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I have a husband and we both have a girlfriend together AMA

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Soubriquet · 27/12/2018 19:20

People seemed interested in this so I thought I would start a thread

We’ve all been together for 18 months now and parent our 2 children.

Initially in the beginning we had a bit of jealousy and such but now we all get along perfectly

I am bisexual which is why I’m happy being with both her and him

We will be intimate as a 3some or if one of us is not in the mood, the other two will be intimate

Dh sleeps in the same bed as gf as I can’t stand sharing a bed with anyone.

OP posts:
bifflediffle · 27/12/2018 20:13

I know I said I was going but WTF? Where are the kids when 2 of the 3 adults are doing weed?

RunSweatLaughAndLatte · 27/12/2018 20:13

Would he mind if you then got another boyfriend?

TwistedStitch · 27/12/2018 20:14

But OP has said the kids have never really known any different and all they are seeing I presume are 3 happy loving adults ?

No she said her son doesn't remember any different. Her daughter is in year 1 so at least 6ish, so first 5 years of her life living with mum and dad. Then new woman moves in and she's now mummy too. You don't think that's confusing? OP says she doesn't care but it's often the case that children accept what they are given in childhood. It doesn't mean it isn't damaging them though.

Original poster
Soubriquet · 27/12/2018 20:14

I know I said I was going but last question

They are in bed. The two of them go outside in the outhouse whilst I stay indoors

OP posts:
RunSweatLaughAndLatte · 27/12/2018 20:14

What if you wanted to break up with the girlfriend but he didn't?

Batteriesallgone · 27/12/2018 20:14

She does the shopping every other week?

You are a SAHM so her and DH share the expenses from their incomes, is that right?

What will happen if she does have a child? Will you be SAHM to all three? Will she?

ConorMcGregorsChin · 27/12/2018 20:14

And to add... if you are that person, then I think this thread is either bollocks or you are just desperate to shock and share details of your supposed alternative lifestyle.

OrgyofSausages · 27/12/2018 20:14

TBH you remind me a little of the Philpotts.

bifflediffle · 27/12/2018 20:16

Dreadful way to behave. Drugs around children is a complete no no in my book.

FamilyOfAliens · 27/12/2018 20:16

Your children are growing up to see that love doesn't have any limits

Children aged 3 and 5 are not concerned with the philosophical aspects of love ffs.

MsChookandtheelvesofFahFah · 27/12/2018 20:16

Another one here concerned about her vulnerability. And the ratio of food bills should be at least 5:2 not 1:1. Is she paying rent and utilities? How is her future secure financially? If you or your husband decide to call it a day she would be homeless.

CarrieBlu · 27/12/2018 20:17

OrgyofSausages I was thinking that too.

OrgyofSausages · 27/12/2018 20:17

They put their gonads and shagging above their dc too.

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bobstersmum · 27/12/2018 20:18

So you've a very low sex drive, but you have regular threesomes? Or do you not really have threesomes, or any sex at all, you just live under the illusion of being in a polygamous relationship (but really your dh has moved his bit in the side in)
I think you need to kick them both out op.

Kittykat93 · 27/12/2018 20:19

I feel sorry for your kids. A new girlfriend being introduced as their new mummy, two of their 'parents' regularly doing drugs whilst the children are in the house. It all sounds a bit shit.

Branleuse · 27/12/2018 20:21

sounds alright for him tbf

SchnitzelVonKrumm · 27/12/2018 20:21

They're the primary relationship. You're the nanny/housekeeper keeping things on track while they're stoned or shagging. Your poor children.

OrgyofSausages · 27/12/2018 20:21

They go into "the outhouse"? Is this the 1950s? Hmm
Mind you the Philpott mum no 2 slept in a caravan in the front garden where she and Mick would shag .

MsChookandtheelvesofFahFah · 27/12/2018 20:23

If they haven't already the school will raise a cause for concern sheet for your dc. Not that you aren't a loving household and would never knowingly harm your dc but they are vulnerable re attachments and obviously there's the drug issue.

Dommina · 27/12/2018 20:24

I'm also in involved in a polygamous relationship, not yet involving kids. Just thought I'd say well done for being so open. It's a pity that you've got such a lot of rude, snide comments. Lord knows monogamous relationships don't always end well!

What's your favourite biscuit? Grin

AnyFucker · 27/12/2018 20:24

Op, I am not sure your thread has gone the way you wanted it to or even if the situation you describe is real

But if it is, piss taking aside, if you were my friend IRL I would be concerned for you

vaccinationquery · 27/12/2018 20:26

Missed the bit about drugs round children, that is not good at all

Hezz · 27/12/2018 20:26

Oh dear. I have a terrible feeling you'll be the one pushed out of this 'relationship' in a year or two and I'm worried about your DCs.