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Third (and final) thread - C nonsense

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JaysusWept Sat 21-Sep-19 21:59:45

Unbelievable that this is the 3rd thread and still nothing has been resolved.
I wasn’t going to start this one but if anything good comes out of this shite it will be a Glasgow/Scotland MN meet up!

I know folk laugh at all the ‘DAILY MAIL MAY NOT USE THIS’ stuff, but here’s me giving the scummy DM permission to use this 👋

JaysusWept Sat 21-Sep-19 22:00:54

Actually, I really don’t want to be in the DM. I’ll need to practice my sad face and my ‘me now’ face.

lakeloveragain Sat 21-Sep-19 22:01:03

What do you want to do next?

Whoops75 Sat 21-Sep-19 22:05:36

You’re far to classy for the Mail.

This story belongs on the big screen.
Holly & Phil should do a feature on this.

When friends become frenemies......

I’ll play myself in the movie 🎥

JaysusWept Sat 21-Sep-19 22:07:33

The brave, bold part of me would confront C and her husband.
The people pleasing, conflict avoiding part of me just wants to sweep this all under the carpet, be polite and move on.

But the injustice of it all fucking stings. And that’s what annoys me. I haven’t done anything wrong.

hardrainsgonnafall Sat 21-Sep-19 22:09:10

Can anyone précis?

I keep seeing these C threads!

You been wronged OP?

SandyGusset Sat 21-Sep-19 22:11:20

If C really believed that you were after her husband, why didn't she say anything before she fucked up with that first message?

It's like she's just throwing shit upon shit and hoping it sticks!

I think your friends have made it clear who's side they are on.

I don't think I could help myself, I'd have to go and turn up on their doorstop and say "right... let's sort this out, someone has clearly been messaging your husband, I don't doubt that, but it isn't me. So, please, once and for all just tell the truth so I can clear my name from being dragged through your muddy drama anymore"

PumpityPumpPump Sat 21-Sep-19 22:12:26

I'm glad you are back! I have been thinking of you and C. What a cow.

Fizzypop2 Sat 21-Sep-19 22:13:02

I bet the husband left because he found out that she had been spreading vicious lies... what exactly does she think is going to happen? That she will get away with it?

SmellMySmellbow Sat 21-Sep-19 22:14:14

I wonder what line her DH is intending to take in all of this? Is he fully appraised yet of what she's saying, I wonder? Is she blackmailing him to go along with it or she'll publish embarrassing nudes?!

SandyGusset Sat 21-Sep-19 22:14:18

You've got nothing to lose in defending your name.

Or ask your ex to message the husband and ask him what the hell is going on!

Weenabix Sat 21-Sep-19 22:14:57

Summon up the brave bold part and confront them! I really think you will regret it if you let it go but you can't regret speaking and seeking the truth, especially if you are calm and measured in doing it.

beethebee Sat 21-Sep-19 22:15:48

I'd send a cease and desist letter to Cs husband. That'd put the cat among the pigeons.

MarshaBradyo Sat 21-Sep-19 22:17:19

So intrigued to know what the H will be like at pick up. Will he turn up. Do the usual chat, be warned off with some lie or op will avoid him.

SmellMySmellbow Sat 21-Sep-19 22:17:55

And I'd let your ex confront the bloke. Ludicrous as it is, you've nothing to lose there. He needs to know exactly what's happening, assuming he doesn't, and the effect it's having. And what is he going to say/do about it?

LorelaiRoryEmily Sat 21-Sep-19 22:18:32

I've been following since the first thread @JaysusWept it's an awful situation. I think I would go and confront C. And record it(without her knowledge) for the benefit of those other rotten bitches who were supposed to be your friends.

The unfairness of it would force me to properly defend myself. What a pack of cunts.

thanksthanks for you and your DD

Dodie66 Sat 21-Sep-19 22:21:38

Can somebody post links to previous threads please?

frazzledasarock Sat 21-Sep-19 22:23:12

If he hasn’t husband is ‘going back to c’, I’m back betting he’s not left at all and has no idea what’s is going on.

He’s probably been away on a trip somewhere with work or mates or something and is now on returning home.

C just used his absence as fodder to embellish her lies.

I’d actually take your ex up on him asking C’s husband why the Husband is lying about tv messages and affairs with you. I bet the poor sod has no idea what’s going on.

TheoriginalLEM Sat 21-Sep-19 22:23:30

Marking my place because i don't think this is over by along shot. I think your first job on Monday is to consult a solicitor

PrimeMumister Sat 21-Sep-19 22:25:04

She just doesn't give up does she 🤦🏻‍♀️ C is an attention seeking plonker who doesn't realise/care that she's hurting people with her lies

BatmanLovesTheCircus Sat 21-Sep-19 22:25:47

I agree that you have nothing to lose by getting your ex to contact C’s husband.

PrimeMumister Sat 21-Sep-19 22:26:17

First thread

How should I reply to this text? http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/3690195-How-should-I-reply-to-this-text

PrimeMumister Sat 21-Sep-19 22:26:56

Second

C and the (non-existent) FB messages http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/3695218-C-and-the-non-existent-FB-messages

BelleSausage Sat 21-Sep-19 22:27:32

OP- I say fight fire with fire.

If anyone asks you about it you just imply that she not well (which she clearly isn’t) and express your sympathy for her.

I’m sure the school gossip can transform that into something.

The key is to be sympathetic and neutral in public and neutral in public.

Never let them know what it cost you. The best revenge is to live well. Put all your energy into your daughter and moving on in life. I’m sure the karmic wheel will turn and they will get what they’ve made back a thousand fold in the end.

Talkingmouse Sat 21-Sep-19 22:27:39

Shit. She has gone all in with her batshitness.

Take up your exH offer to confront C’s H. No way he will carry off a lie like this to another bloke. Sad, but true.

Otherwise repeat the facts to KMD. Don’t hide. Don’t play games. Do as many drop-offs/pick-ups as you can. Head-up. You can do this.

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