NAOMI CUNNINGHAM ON PRONOUNS AND WHY SHE NO LONGER USES INCORRECT SEX PRONOUNS
This thread, by the way, was in answer to beccajiggens posting:
"Deliberately misgendering trans people in such aggressive ways is conduct unbecoming of a barrister. Again.
@ barstandards"
Naomi's answer:
https://x.com/LoudBonnet/status/2079302831215902930?s=20
" Because I am a dissenter from gender ideology, the pronouns I use are almost invariably determined by the sex, not the gender identity, of the person I am referring to.
I understand that some people think my choice in this is unkind, or rude. I might have thought that myself a few years ago.
I no longer think that, for a number of reasons.
The first is that courtesy is freely given. A "courtesy" demanded with menaces loses its quality as such, and becomes a gesture of submission to bullies.
The second is about truth. If I say "she" of a man, I am implying that he is female. Men aren't female, so I am saying something untrue.
We all tell polite lies sometimes when it doesn't matter much. I think back when I was willing to tell this one, I thought it didn't matter much.
I know better now. What I know now is that many of the men who want to be referred to by feminine pronouns also want everyone to be forced to treat them for all purposes as if they were women, to the detriment of actual women's privacy, dignity and safety.
I think it matters a lot that we should be able to say "no" to those men, and to explain in plain words why we say no (because they are men).
The third is about clarity. Even if everyone knows in theory that the man we're all referring to as "she" is a man really, referring to him as "she" is confusing.
Clarity is fundamental to my job as an advocate: I need to be able to put my arguments as clearly and vividly as possible.
The fourth and perhaps the most important is about what's known to propagandists, advertisers and psychologists as the "repetition effect." People will believe almost any lie, however obviously untrue, if you repeat it often enough.
Lies don't get much more obviously untrue than "trans women are women."
It is repeated like a mantra by trans activists and those who see themselves (or want to be seen) as "allies."
But this lie has a superpower. The superpower is pronouns.
The near-universal compliance with "preferred pronouns," even by many of those who dissent in other ways from gender ideology, means that the lie is repeated with almost every utterance about a man who says he is a woman (or a woman who says she is a man).
And it's repeated not as an assertion, but insidiously, subliminally, by the use of little grammar-words that are normally handled on autopilot and barely registered by either speaker or listener.
It's brilliant propaganda. It's especially brilliant that so many dissenters have been induced to reinforce the lie in this way.
I'm not prepared to.
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