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Two-year-old euthanised in Netherlands in first assisted dying case of its kind

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IwantToRetire · 28/09/2026 19:01

I'm not going to select any part of the article but just post the link for those who want to read
https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/netherlands-infant-2-euthanised-assisted-37709218

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kxeil · 30/09/2026 17:51

@ReleaseTheDucksOfWar People don’t want to think about their mortality, that one day they might be in a very vulnerable position needing care.

Kirbert2 · 30/09/2026 17:56

kxeil · 30/09/2026 17:46

In an ‘ideal world’ we would have plenty of funding to look after the most vulnerable in society. Unfortunately we don’t.

and instead of making efforts to improve it, they should just be killed?

There's a shortage in many areas due to funding issues such as education etc why is it only an acceptable solution to kill vulnerable people?

TempestTost · 30/09/2026 18:01

ReleaseTheDucksOfWar · 30/09/2026 14:02

I do see what you're saying and think it's a valid argument, but I run into a quagmire here and can't find a way forward.

In a world with an increasing right wing creep, I'd be afraid that this option would be seen as desirable by some flavours of government and used to cut services further. And shelter and medical centres for long term homeless people where every time you go, you're asked if you'd like for this situation to come to an end via a specialised service - just no. I don't have faith that a government like that won't be elected.

And in practise with the Canadian model people have been pressured into assisted dying.

Honestly, personally in the UK's case I'm closer to the fence than I give the impression, because of the nature of the healthcare system. But the cruelty of forcing a loving partner to being a longed- for release to their spouse, or the cruelty of not allowing a safe death for someone who genuinely wants to die, tips the balance. Although I'll fight to the bitter end the utterly controlling and selfish "I can live with my pain so no one else should have the option for eithanasia" or "I'm afraid someone will tell me I should go for euthanasia so I'm going to vote that no one can.

I mean - it seems to be people on the left who are consistently arguing for this.

The people here on MN who come on saying that we need euthanasia and assisted death for people who can't get care seem to be on the left.

ReleaseTheDucksOfWar · 30/09/2026 18:02

They really don't want to face that they may be in an unendurable position, and the other thing I notice is that when new information comes their way they'd far rather close their eyes to it than adapt.

Many people - most - will be okay. But some won't, and it's the needs of small proportion who won't who are in question here.

kxeil · 30/09/2026 18:06

NullaEffugium · 30/09/2026 17:28

But what was causing her suffering? It wasn’t just living with those conditions. A person with autism and depression like her is very vulnerable to both emotional manipulation and coercion. Autistic patients are often classed as complex or difficult and not much has been done to tailor psychiatric therapy for neurodivergent minds. It is obviously less effort, bother and expense to just assist a depressed autistic person commit suicide than it is to put in the years of therapy to help them. In addition, there is a stigma about autistic people often being a burden on society and less right to live. During covid, there were DNRs put on anyone with a neurodivergence or learning difficulty no matter how physically healthy they were because they were deemed less worthy of being treated for Covid.

Zoraya ter Beek had unbearable mental suffering. Her evaluation and approval process for assisted dying took three and a half years.

TempestTost · 30/09/2026 18:11

kxeil · 30/09/2026 17:40

If there is no one to look after the very sick and disabled what is the solution? The reality is there’s a massive shortage of nurses and carers today which is only getting worse. The unsustainable demands of the job puts people off. Staff retention is a huge problem too.

Maybe we could push them out on ice flows.

Really, the fact that you think this is a reasonable argument is the exact reason that it should never be allowed.

ReleaseTheDucksOfWar · 30/09/2026 18:11

TempestTost · 30/09/2026 18:01

I mean - it seems to be people on the left who are consistently arguing for this.

The people here on MN who come on saying that we need euthanasia and assisted death for people who can't get care seem to be on the left.

I hadn't noticed that the right wing was arguing for more investment in the health service and care and welfare services recently! (genuine observation - if they have, please correct me)

In my view it's the moderate - left govts who tend to be more in favour of the idea of health services etc - that's who set them up in the UK and elsewhere.

I don't actually know which political flavours support euthanasia more, but I do think that the more right wing ones are less inclined to support health services. At least, judging by the results in the UK the last forty years.

kxeil · 30/09/2026 18:11

Kirbert2 · 30/09/2026 17:56

and instead of making efforts to improve it, they should just be killed?

There's a shortage in many areas due to funding issues such as education etc why is it only an acceptable solution to kill vulnerable people?

It might not be an acceptable solution, but it is a solution for people who want it.

kxeil · 30/09/2026 18:12

TempestTost · 30/09/2026 18:11

Maybe we could push them out on ice flows.

Really, the fact that you think this is a reasonable argument is the exact reason that it should never be allowed.

How are you going to conjure up carers and nurses to look after the growing number of vulnerable people?

TempestTost · 30/09/2026 18:14

kxeil · 30/09/2026 18:12

How are you going to conjure up carers and nurses to look after the growing number of vulnerable people?

I wish I was shocked that you think this is an argument.

How about children that cost the education system too much money next?

ReleaseTheDucksOfWar · 30/09/2026 18:15

I don't think @NullaEffugium will ever accept that someone might genuinely know their own mind and want to die. Too challenging to face perhaps.

XelaM · 30/09/2026 18:17

What quality of life does for example a double-incontinent dementia sufferer really have? Why would you want to continue living like that?

Constantrunner · 30/09/2026 18:20

XelaM · 30/09/2026 18:17

What quality of life does for example a double-incontinent dementia sufferer really have? Why would you want to continue living like that?

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Lots of disabled people are doubly incontinent. It doesn't make someone's life worthless.
Dementia varies. It can mean you can still live at home alone with someone helping with things like bills, right to needing 24 hour care.

XelaM · 30/09/2026 18:22

Constantrunner · 30/09/2026 18:20

Lots of disabled people are doubly incontinent. It doesn't make someone's life worthless.
Dementia varies. It can mean you can still live at home alone with someone helping with things like bills, right to needing 24 hour care.

Obviously I'm talking late stages of dementia when some people even forget how to eat. Why would anyone want to continue living having lost everything that made him a person and all dignity? What's the point?

ReleaseTheDucksOfWar · 30/09/2026 18:22

Constantrunner · 30/09/2026 18:20

Lots of disabled people are doubly incontinent. It doesn't make someone's life worthless.
Dementia varies. It can mean you can still live at home alone with someone helping with things like bills, right to needing 24 hour care.

That isn't the point.

The point is, what if the person themselves wants to die because they feel they don't want to live like that? Neither you nor I can speak for them.

kxeil · 30/09/2026 18:24

TempestTost · 30/09/2026 18:14

I wish I was shocked that you think this is an argument.

How about children that cost the education system too much money next?

If there is no funding and not enough people willing to care for vulnerable people, what do you suggest?

It’s the government of the day that decides how the money is spent. Not enough people are paying taxes and Rachel Reeves damaged the job market.

ReleaseTheDucksOfWar · 30/09/2026 18:37

TempestTost · 30/09/2026 18:14

I wish I was shocked that you think this is an argument.

How about children that cost the education system too much money next?

Turn this around @TempestTost

Why do you think it's alright that people are living in pain and not wanting to live, and we could help and don't?

kxeil · 30/09/2026 18:57

ReleaseTheDucksOfWar · 30/09/2026 18:37

Turn this around @TempestTost

Why do you think it's alright that people are living in pain and not wanting to live, and we could help and don't?

There is a vital need for assisted dying and euthanasia to end severe suffering,

People deserve bodily autonomy and the right to die on their own terms.

fuschiaproudparrot · 30/09/2026 19:16

Constantrunner · 30/09/2026 18:20

Lots of disabled people are doubly incontinent. It doesn't make someone's life worthless.
Dementia varies. It can mean you can still live at home alone with someone helping with things like bills, right to needing 24 hour care.

Have you seen a person with dementia living at home on their own ? Yes there are different types, stages. It may be ok initially but it doesn't last.

fuschiaproudparrot · 30/09/2026 19:17

kxeil · 30/09/2026 18:57

There is a vital need for assisted dying and euthanasia to end severe suffering,

People deserve bodily autonomy and the right to die on their own terms.

100%

kxeil · 30/09/2026 19:20

fuschiaproudparrot · 30/09/2026 19:17

100%

We are in the minority here!

elgreco · 30/09/2026 19:29

Shortshriftandlethal · 30/09/2026 14:46

Some controversial cases from the Netherlands

1. The 2016 Dementia / Sedated Patient Trial

  • The Case: A 74-year-old woman with severe Alzheimer’s disease had previously written an advance euthanasia directive (AED) stating she wanted to die "when I want to," but also wrote that she could not decide at that moment. When the doctor proceeded with euthanasia, he slipped a sedative into her coffee because she was agitated, and her family had to hold her down as she resisted the injection.
  • The Controversy: This marked the first time a criminal investigation was opened against a doctor under the 2002 law. In 2019, the court [The Hague] acquitted the doctor of all charges, ruling he acted lawfully and honored a valid prior written request, noting that severe dementia removes the capacity to re-verify consent. Critics, however, raised alarms about overriding active resistance from a dementia patient.

2. Psychiatric Suffering and Young Adults (Aurelia Brouwers and Zoraya ter Beek)

  • Aurelia Brouwers (2018): The 29-year-old died via doctor-administered lethal medication after a long history of severe depression, borderline personality disorder, and chronic suicidality, despite having no terminal physical illness.
  • Zoraya ter Beek (2024): The 29-year-old received approval for assisted dying after a multi-year evaluation process for chronic depression, autism, trauma, and anxiety.
  • The Controversy: These cases sparked fierce international debate over whether psychological suffering should qualify for euthanasia. Critics argue that severe mental distress can be treatable or improve over time, and that granting euthanasia risks normalizing or encouraging suicide for psychiatric patients. Proponents maintain that mental suffering can be just as hopeless and unbearable as physical disease, which the Dutch Supreme Court acknowledged in the landmark 1994 Chabot case

So if the child is a girl, then along with the 2 young women and 1 elderly woman who have been controversialy euthanized, it would make all 4 of those controversially euthanized female.

fuschiaproudparrot · 30/09/2026 19:37

kxeil · 30/09/2026 19:20

We are in the minority here!

I understand it is a contentious issue. There are of course different issues here - a person being able to consent to this and the one in the OP which it is where a child . It is so individual and the people who have had disabled children are obviously outraged by this. This is the thing - each case IS individual and would not to be considered in that light ! By not having this as an option though people are being denied this self determination.

kxeil · 30/09/2026 19:38

elgreco · 30/09/2026 19:29

So if the child is a girl, then along with the 2 young women and 1 elderly woman who have been controversialy euthanized, it would make all 4 of those controversially euthanized female.

More women than men choose assisted dying. Men are more likely to choose violent unassisted suicide.

nearlylovemyusername · 30/09/2026 19:42

XelaM · 30/09/2026 18:17

What quality of life does for example a double-incontinent dementia sufferer really have? Why would you want to continue living like that?

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I assume double incontinent dementia sufferer you have in your mind doesn't have capacity to decide when they reach this stage. So without their direct request this would be considered murder.
Besides, you just don't know what's going on in their minds, they might be fine with their state, even though it seems vegetated life to the rest of the world.

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