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MyrtleLion · 26/06/2026 18:15

Wishesandhorses · 26/06/2026 18:14

That almost makes it sound as though the main point of having the second child was to get 'father' on a piece of paper.

I think you nailed it.

UtopiaPlanitia · 26/06/2026 18:28

MyrtleLion · 26/06/2026 18:05

She planned to give birth to her second child in Sweden, so she could be named as the “father” on the birth certificate, but had an emergency c-section in the UK.

From Wikipedia. McConnell announced his second pregnancy in August 2021,[12] with plans to give birth in Sweden in order to be listed as the child's father, rather than mother, on their birth certificate.[13] His second child was born in the UK in January 2022 via emergency c-section.

Also hasn’t stated her child’s sex.

If she really is dysphoric, why would she do the most female thing possible and have two children?

I don’t have dysphoria, but I never wanted children. I just don’t understand this at all.

Edited

It almost seems like the pregnancy could have been a means to achieve the birth certificate. I would really hate to think that someone could be so determined to support an ideology that that could be the case.

EdithStourton · 26/06/2026 18:50

Nowisthetimeforicecream · 26/06/2026 17:44

Definitely part bloke - go to HR for your pay adjustment now!

12% uplift right now!

EdithStourton · 26/06/2026 18:53

DramaAndBullshit · 26/06/2026 17:34

I wear unisex/men’s clothes fairly often. I’ve not grown a penis yet, when can I expect my Y chromosome? Will it be in the post or is it some kind of magic beans type thing?

If my experience is anything to go by, it's at least a 45 year wait... So don't hold your breath.

elgreco · 26/06/2026 19:22

McConnell clearly had children just to mess with their (kids') birth certs. They are a means to an end. Same as the poor not irish kid.

DiaAssolellat · 26/06/2026 20:09

Nannyfannybanny · 26/06/2026 14:18

I watched the documentary some years ago,and Freddie kept insisting "he", was a man, while obviously having all the female representative organs , the risks to a baby, stopping the male hormones in order to become pregnant,with anger. "Freddie" has been Badgering the High Court for years, demanding to be father. Imagine Father Freddie, mother unknown or unnamed!

Cognitive dissonance in action

IcedCoffee26 · 26/06/2026 20:26

callmeLoretta1 · 26/06/2026 15:54

That's deeply offensive, sexist and cruel. A child deserves to know the details of it's birth mother and father, even if circumstances mean they don't have contact with them.

You have misunderstood.

The parents' dates and places of birth and nationalities and grandparents' names are on the birth certificate, obviously.

But instead of saying Father - John, Mother - Lucy they say Progenitor A - John, Progenitor B - Lucy. Or Progenitor A -John Progenitor B - Diego or Progenitor A - Maria Progenitor B - Lucy. So there is no issue for trans people or same sex partners.

Also Spanish kids have both parents' surnames, always.

IcedCoffee26 · 26/06/2026 20:28

Pingponghavoc · 26/06/2026 15:27

Mother has an important safeguarding role in the UK.

Can you expand on this?

ToiletKaren · 26/06/2026 20:56

IcedCoffee26 · 26/06/2026 20:26

You have misunderstood.

The parents' dates and places of birth and nationalities and grandparents' names are on the birth certificate, obviously.

But instead of saying Father - John, Mother - Lucy they say Progenitor A - John, Progenitor B - Lucy. Or Progenitor A -John Progenitor B - Diego or Progenitor A - Maria Progenitor B - Lucy. So there is no issue for trans people or same sex partners.

Also Spanish kids have both parents' surnames, always.

How does that help? It's not accurate to put both members of a same sex marriage down as the two progenitors. They can't be.

Floralibra · 26/06/2026 21:54

Hilarious line ‘the woman stored frozen sperm’ ….. 🤣 worlds gone mad! Does even say trans woman which would be the correct sentence instead of biological male which is also correct.

NotBadConsidering · 26/06/2026 21:58

I have no doubt Freddy was similarly gaslighted and encouraged to entertain a delusion, and that being reminded of the biological truth must hurt.

I think it’s more likely Freddy was the one doing the gaslighting.

Although she doesn’t seem very bright. She had a mastectomy at 27 then claimed she had no idea that meant she wouldn’t be able to breastfeed after she gave birth.

SharingMyOpinion · 26/06/2026 22:16

Kinsters · 26/06/2026 15:14

PTD (now known as Quangocrat) has some pretty interesting and detailed analysis on that Reddit thread if you scroll down a bit. I shan't copy it all here as there's a lot but it's interesting. Basically the ECHR tries to avoid the "American problem" of being hamstrung by a static code by applying a principle called The Comparative Law Framework. When deciding how strict to be with members about supposed human rights infringements they will look at what is done throughout member states. So if member states all agree that trans women are women except for one outlier then they will take a "narrow view" and compel the outlier to fall into line (apparently that's what happened with Godwin). However if there is more diversity in approaches of member states they will take a "wide view" and be more lenient.

I think I have got the gist of it correct but he did say what he wrote was an oversimplification and I have simplified it further. I thought it was interesting though, I've not come across this concept before.

This is the margin of appreciation. It’s narrow or wide depending on the impact on others human rights.

Recent case law says margin of appreciation is narrow where the state makes ‘transition’ dependent on surgical castration or sterilization. I agree with that.

But you can’t force states to allow trans people to do whatever they want because they want to. Wide margin of appreciation in many instances.

KnottyAuty · 26/06/2026 22:20

As if we needed further proof, but here’s yet more in support of this weird men’s rights movement

Trans man Freddy McConnell's challenge to be named as father on birth certificate deemed inadmissible by the ECHR
ArabellaScott · 26/06/2026 23:19

MyAmpleSheep · 26/06/2026 13:35

Yes, I think this is a very significant indicator.

Agreed.

Excellent news all round.

IcedCoffee26 · 26/06/2026 23:43

ToiletKaren · 26/06/2026 20:56

How does that help? It's not accurate to put both members of a same sex marriage down as the two progenitors. They can't be.

https://www.boe.es/buscar/doc.php?id=BOE-A-2006-3764

There's the official communication from the BOE. See Article 4.

I'm just saying that we don't write gender based titles for the parents on birth certificates anymore. It changed years ago.

Used to say Padre - John, Madre - Lucy now says Progenitor A - John Progenitor B - Lucy.

Problem solved. Haven't noticed anyone giving a toss either.

stickygotstuck · 26/06/2026 23:58

IcedCoffee26 · 26/06/2026 23:43

https://www.boe.es/buscar/doc.php?id=BOE-A-2006-3764

There's the official communication from the BOE. See Article 4.

I'm just saying that we don't write gender based titles for the parents on birth certificates anymore. It changed years ago.

Used to say Padre - John, Madre - Lucy now says Progenitor A - John Progenitor B - Lucy.

Problem solved. Haven't noticed anyone giving a toss either.

You may not have noticed, but I assure you, people do give a toss. They find it insulting and have complained to the Civil Registry.

SqueakyDinosaur · 26/06/2026 23:58

And is Progenitor A always the small-gamete person, and Progenitor B always the large-gamete person?

Because if a. that's correct, then it's always going to be possible to identify the trans parent(s), and b. if it's not, then that's going to make genealogical research a whole lot more difficult.

ToiletKaren · Yesterday 00:22

IcedCoffee26 · 26/06/2026 23:43

https://www.boe.es/buscar/doc.php?id=BOE-A-2006-3764

There's the official communication from the BOE. See Article 4.

I'm just saying that we don't write gender based titles for the parents on birth certificates anymore. It changed years ago.

Used to say Padre - John, Madre - Lucy now says Progenitor A - John Progenitor B - Lucy.

Problem solved. Haven't noticed anyone giving a toss either.

Linking to a Spanish document isn't vastly helpful to me!
The certificate might be labelled progenitor A and B, but what are the guidelines for whose names can go on the birth certificate - are they saying it doesn't have to be the actual birth parents of the baby?
You've suggested not, by saying it helps same sex parents

ToiletKaren · Yesterday 00:33

In Scotland, the certificate says "mother", and "father or parent" (well it does now) which I think is a better way to allow for lesbian couples to register the birth together.
editing to add it's a different process for male same sex couples

Pingponghavoc · Yesterday 01:02

IcedCoffee26 · 26/06/2026 20:28

Can you expand on this?

A mother has automatic parental responsibility for her child.

Without this, there would be no one with PR for the child until a birth certificate is issued.

Rednorth · Yesterday 03:33

IcedCoffee26 · 26/06/2026 20:26

You have misunderstood.

The parents' dates and places of birth and nationalities and grandparents' names are on the birth certificate, obviously.

But instead of saying Father - John, Mother - Lucy they say Progenitor A - John, Progenitor B - Lucy. Or Progenitor A -John Progenitor B - Diego or Progenitor A - Maria Progenitor B - Lucy. So there is no issue for trans people or same sex partners.

Also Spanish kids have both parents' surnames, always.

'Progenitor' is an absolutely awful term.

Heggettypeg · Yesterday 04:57

Rednorth · Yesterday 03:33

'Progenitor' is an absolutely awful term.

It always reminds me of the Duchess of Plaza Toro's song in The Gondoliers.

Shortshriftandlethal · Yesterday 07:09

Pudmyboy · 26/06/2026 16:29

I thought Freddie described the second pregnancy as 'a happy accident'?

I can't believe that. McConnell had to come off testosterone whilst trying to get pregnant and then whilst being pregnant the first time. And also becoming pregnant in the first instance was not that easy or without much effort, as far as I can recall.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · Yesterday 08:18

ItsCoolForCats · 26/06/2026 16:27

Thanks for the link, it sounds like the ECHR has decided it's up to the UK to decide on these things, and the ECHR doesn't have the power to instruct them otherwise. Which means anyone else who's trying to circumvent the legal rulings of the UK isn't going to have any luck with the ECHR. Good 😁

ArabellaScott · Yesterday 08:23

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · Yesterday 08:18

Thanks for the link, it sounds like the ECHR has decided it's up to the UK to decide on these things, and the ECHR doesn't have the power to instruct them otherwise. Which means anyone else who's trying to circumvent the legal rulings of the UK isn't going to have any luck with the ECHR. Good 😁

Exactly. Thanks are due to Freddy for effectively putting the theory that the ECHR would have anything to say about the SC judgment and UK law on the matters to bed.

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