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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Dozens of men discuss ignoring single sex space rules

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 10/06/2026 10:05

https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1u1webq/is_anyone_here_actually_going_to_follow_the/

as mentioned in other threads, I really am concerned about compliance. I know it will never be 100% but am concerned about what blatant non compliance may lead to

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Keeptoiletssafe · Yesterday 12:48

JulietteHasAGun · Yesterday 11:38

Oh my god. I always knew dryers were a bacteria breeding nightmare but never thought about them being in the cubicle making it worse. Right, that’s me stopping using the toilets at work.

Paper towels are better! Unisex toilets are (supposed to be) in a room not a cubicle, so there’s no floor gaps to ventilate and get a mop under. This means pathogen build up. A lot of research has been done since Covid as people re-remembered that ventilation was a good thing.

I have to admit, if I use a unisex toilet I use hand sanitiser after I have unlocked the door!

DiaAssolellat · Yesterday 12:49

TheHateUGive · Yesterday 10:46

How more clothes? You either have on undies and a skirt or trousers. Pretty much same as a man. What the hell are you wearing?

What i see women do in the toilets is spend ages at the sinks.

Undies 🤮 Who says this?

TheHateUGive · Yesterday 12:52

DiaAssolellat · Yesterday 12:49

Undies 🤮 Who says this?

I do. Because not everyone wears the same type of underwear and undies is a short way of referring to any type a person might wear. What makes you sick about the term?

Or are you going to say that this is only something that men say or something equally small minded and ridiculous?

TheHateUGive · Yesterday 12:52

People will do anything to avoid answering a question.

MagpiePi · Yesterday 12:56

I think @TheHateUGive thinks we should all be doing what the 'lady' in pink is doing while we are standing in the queue rather than waiting until we are in the cubicle.

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Dozens of men discuss ignoring single sex space rules
selffellatingouroborosofhate · Yesterday 12:57

TheHateUGive · Yesterday 10:46

How more clothes? You either have on undies and a skirt or trousers. Pretty much same as a man. What the hell are you wearing?

What i see women do in the toilets is spend ages at the sinks.

We have to fully undress from the waist down in between wrangling cubicle doors and locks.

Men open their fly and point at a urinal.

mrshoho · Yesterday 12:57

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Comtesse · Yesterday 13:00

TheHateUGive · Yesterday 12:32

Lol

I am asking what these layers and layers of clothes you have to remove to pee are. Do you wear petticoats and slips most days?

An example - tights, not many men wear them, many women do particularly in the autumn / winter.

BestZebbie · Yesterday 13:01

EmpressDomesticatednottamed · 10/06/2026 12:23

Diversion alert on.

FFS, there aren't any baths in public lavatories, just why? Excess of prudery?
Bit more of an argument for rest, after all one can have a sit down, but if forced to hover it is definitely not restful.

Diversion alert off.

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Lavatory is from Latin lavare “to wash”, therefore meaning “washroom” - the room you bathe in. Hence being anglicised to bathroom.

TheHateUGive · Yesterday 13:02

MagpiePi · Yesterday 12:56

I think @TheHateUGive thinks we should all be doing what the 'lady' in pink is doing while we are standing in the queue rather than waiting until we are in the cubicle.

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No I don't think that at all. Why would you say that? Simply because I questioned the idea that women routinely wear several more layers than men that we have to fight through to pee? Is that why you are now saying i think people should fondle themselves in public?

TheHateUGive · Yesterday 13:02

selffellatingouroborosofhate · Yesterday 12:57

We have to fully undress from the waist down in between wrangling cubicle doors and locks.

Men open their fly and point at a urinal.

Eh? You just pull down your underwear and trousers or pull up your skirt. You don't need to take anything off. It doesn't take more than a second.

DiaAssolellat · Yesterday 13:03

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TheHateUGive · Yesterday 13:03

Comtesse · Yesterday 13:00

An example - tights, not many men wear them, many women do particularly in the autumn / winter.

Same as trousers really. Yeah they are tighter but youre not even pulling them.all the way down to your ankles and certainly not taking them off.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · Yesterday 13:04

TheHateUGive · Yesterday 12:48

What about trans women in the general population? Are they more likely to be violent criminals?

Or is it just in prison where the person may have transitioned after they were imprisoned and so were never female presenting in public?

Gary Dean Marie.

Barbie Kardashian.

Katie Dolatowski.

Tanis Wolf.

All pre-offence transitioners.

TheHateUGive · Yesterday 13:05

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No i am.just asking for an explanation of the idea that women have all these layers on that men do not. It seems that asking that has caused some of you to.start personally attacking me. I wonder why.

Comtesse · Yesterday 13:05

Mate, tights are nothing like trousers don’t be silly.

TheHateUGive · Yesterday 13:05

selffellatingouroborosofhate · Yesterday 13:04

Gary Dean Marie.

Barbie Kardashian.

Katie Dolatowski.

Tanis Wolf.

All pre-offence transitioners.

What does the research say? Are trans women in the general population more likely to be violent offenders? Can you cite some?

TheHateUGive · Yesterday 13:06

Comtesse · Yesterday 13:05

Mate, tights are nothing like trousers don’t be silly.

They are pretty much like leggings and again, you pull them down, you don't take them off..

TheHateUGive · Yesterday 13:07

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Are you insinuating i am a man because I said that women don't routinely wear more layers than men?

Beowulfa · Yesterday 13:12

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SockPlant · Yesterday 13:14

KG74 · 10/06/2026 10:08

The guidance is pretty much null and void by the lack of a way to prove sex bit. Honestly, unless they brought in pants inspections, same sex toilets and changing rooms can't realistically be policed anyway. This was a question a lot of us have asked time and time again - okay, you want single-sex spaces...how do you prove what sex people are? Answer there came none, and so this is the situation we now have.

How the ever loving fuck do you think they were "policed" in previous decades?

CassOle · Yesterday 13:19

Once again, people are trying to shift the focus to women by making them justify single-sex spaces and toilets.

It doesn't matter about clothes, and it doesn't matter how many men who identify as women are offenders, or if they are the loveliest people on Earth. The law has been clarified. Now sod off and accept it.

SpudGunToo · Yesterday 13:22

suggestionsplease1 · 10/06/2026 15:09

Most other laws are at least introduced being capable of being policed, without potentially violating additional laws (in respect of GDPR, privacy, assault and battery) in the act of so doing.

Don’t be silly. It’s not violating GDPR to investigate.

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · Yesterday 13:24

selffellatingouroborosofhate · Yesterday 12:41

Sexual assaults? Vanishingly few.

Men make up over 95% of sex offenders and trans-identified men are overrepresented as sex offenders in prison.

Higher...

Sex offending is overwhelmingly male. The Ministry of Justice has said men accounted for 98% of sentences for sexual offences, and 99% of sentences for specified indecent image offences.

The prison data is also very stark. In England and Wales, of the 245 transgender prisoners recorded as legal gender male in 2024, meaning biological males identifying as women, non-binary or gender-fluid, 151 were convicted of a sexual offence. That is about 62%.

For comparison, sexual offences account for about 22% of the immediately sentenced prison population overall.

So , trans-identified males in prison are heavily overrepresented for sexual offending. That does not mean every trans-identifying person is a risk. It means women and girls are entitled to discuss male-pattern offending and single-sex safeguarding without being smeared as bigots.

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · Yesterday 13:24

TheHateUGive · Yesterday 13:07

Are you insinuating i am a man because I said that women don't routinely wear more layers than men?

I am but only based on your patter of communication.

Also, takes one to know one. :D

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